I messed up

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  1. mkrt31

    mkrt31 New Member

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    OK, so let me preface this by saying I know i've fucked up. I'm relatively buzzed and I STILL couldn't muster the balls to pull through.

    So this girl and I met at my birthday party last year and she was basically eyefucking me all night, but i ended up going home with some other girl...

    Since then I've talked to her roommates, who say I've got an easy in with this girl...

    I've been to two parties at her place this semester, one a few weeks ago and one tonight.

    The one a few weeks ago, we had eye contact all night, but i pussied out and didn't say anything. FUCK ME.

    The one tonight, same story. I even went in with one and only one goal. TALK TO THIS GIRL. And I still fucked up.

    I can talk to attractive girls that i'm not interested in no problem, but I just didn't do it tonight.

    So here is the dilemma: there is about a week left of school. Do i let her just chill out all break and hope i'm on her mind until the next time we see each other in person? Or do I send her a facebook message saying something like 'blah blah, small talk, blah blah, do you want to go do ______ with me before the semester is done?'
     
  2. giz

    giz Active Member

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    you talk to her when you saw her at the party hours ago
     
  3. Mr. November

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    hit it and quit it.

    isn't that the MO of college boys...:squint:
     
  4. themolsen

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    don't send her a fucking facebook message. find a way to see her or run into her ASAP and do what you know you need to do
     
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    ww_Crimson New Member

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    :rofl: Dude, just find a way to talk to her / see her (NOT FACE BOOK) and tell her how you feel. If you like her and you know she is interested in you, then what are you waiting for?
     
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    if the girl likes you as much as you describe you cant fuck up w. either finding a way to meet her in person or using facebook.

    people will say dont use FB bc its lame. have the balls to talk in person.

    we all know that if we like someone enough how they contact us for a date wont matter.
     
  7. mkrt31

    mkrt31 New Member

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    i know right? :wtc:

    I wish I could find a way. Easier said than done, unfortunately.

    Not sure it's really a 'tell her how i feel' kind of situation. More like we both find each other attractive and want to bang kind of situation.

    This is an interesting point, and I'm tempted to do it, but I think i'll refrain for now. If we've been eyeing each other for a year, i think i can wait until the next time in person.

    And I suppose this means I've answered my own question, haha. Thanks guys
     
  8. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Whatever the fuck you do- DO IT NOW. Christ.
     
  9. ChaCha

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    this is worth quoting
     
  10. SovietRussia

    SovietRussia What? You pooped in the refrigerator? OT Supporter

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    i would think that she is going to go home over xmas break and be banging her old BF...

    i would do something now, even fb.
     

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