Prom was coming up and I had no one to go with, and then this girl I know asked another girl I know to go with me, without my consent. So she says yes, she will go with me as a friend. We make the usual preparations and everything is set. Prom arrives and we go and have fun, I acted like a gentleman and not a fool (except on the dance floor). We talked alot and had alot of fun and towards then end of the night during some of the slow dances she would pull me close and I really felt a connection. Then we went to afterprom which was pretty cool, I let her win at shit and we had a good time. Now as to how I fucked up. We were driving around for a few hours after afterprom (which may be one word, i dunno ) and then we came to a stop and starting talking. We were just sitting there in a parking lot alone so i... did nothing. We were supposed to be there as friends so I didn't feel right trying anything. But I think she may have seen that as an act of disinterest. So anyway we finally went home and I didn't kiss her goodbye or anything. The next day comes and it goes by as usual, but the more I talk to her the less I think she's interested. She talks all the time about these people from bands she knows and people she meets at parties. I'm not terribly social like that and I kind of feel below her, even though I've been told I'm not. That and she's really really beautiful. I want to tell her about my feelings, but I dont want to fuck up our friendship. Does anyone know of a way I can pull this off? Maybe soe females remember something their mate did when he first asked them out? Sorry to ramble on, but I have two plans to tell her how I feel. 1. Simply give her call and tell her. 2. Invite her to do something with me but get a little drunk first and tell her then. Then if she shoots me down I can say it was the alcohol talking and hope for our normal relationship to resume. Thanks for reading this, and I would appreciate any help.