Last night, got a bombshell of news from an old friends with benefits. She's pregnant. Said it could be mine, and it could be another guys. Back on March 8th, she came over. We were laying in bed, one thing turned to another, and we ended up having sex. Initially, she slipped me in without me even thinking about it. I immediately pulled out, said we need to use a condom, put one on, and had sex. Condom didn't break or anything, but of course, those initial few seconds involved some precum. I talked with her on the phone today to find out some specifics. We had sex on the 8th, she had unprotected sex with the other guy on the 14th. She wasn't sure, but she thinks her previous period was around February 23rd, 24th, or 25th. She said she's usually regular, so the next one should have been around 23rd or 24th she's thinking. So doing some reading, 14 days would have been right around the time we had sex, and this scares me to hell. She's going to the doctor on Tuesday for another ultrasound (first one was on April 2nd, and they said at that time it was 6 weeks, which she said was impossible as she hadn't been with anyone then) so she said she'd have a good idea come Tuesday. I'm scared shitless right now. I'm in no way able to provide for a kid. I'm struggling in life as it is with school and everything going on and having no income or anything. I told her if it was mine, and if it was up to me, I would have to choose abortion. She even said she's not ready at all for a kid as she's going back to grad school and needs to focus on that, but she wants to keep it. Told me, because of relationship that we've had, which has been rocky at best, she wouldn't expect me to be there for the kid, and wasn't really sure if she wanted me there for the kid. She said right now, if she had to make a decision, she would want nothing from me. Her family can support her, she has friends that said they would support her and help her, and all that. She grew up without a dad, and said she was fine with it. Her mom didn't get anything from her dad, and they all survived well. I'm just scared right now. I don't even know what to think. Reading up on ovulation cycles and all that, it sounds like her prime period for pregnancy would have been right around when we had sex. I don't even know what to do if it is mine. I can't provide for a kid, and I don't even know if I'm going to be in this area in 4 months, or in 12 months. I just don't know what to do with this. I've been stressed out with school and finances for the past month, am going to be stressed out over things for the next few months, and now this. I haven't been able to get my head straight about anything since last night.