i love rejection

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  1. quamen

    quamen New Member

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    I have to admit i dont have much game, but working on it so i can do better with the ladies. Saturday night I was at a bar with a few buddies for his birthday. I actually approached a table of 2 girls, and asked if i could join them. They repsonded with no, because they had people coming. Also asked for the waitress's number, but she said no also. I think she said no because she realized i was pretty hammered,because she seemed to be flirty with me, so im kinda confused myself. Anyways after that happened, i realized it was a big deal and said oh well there lost. I actually feel more confident after getting rejected, because i realized one word "no" didnt do me any harm, and if i hadnt ask i would never have a chance. I really feel like i can just ask for any number anytime now, without a care of rejection.
     
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    kdizzle59 New Member

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    congrats...yea it takes no to realize you wont die after hearing...keep hitting on them girls and you will get one
     
  3. Gregsaidthat

    Gregsaidthat "Individuality is the new conformity"

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    The word "no" shouldn't ruin your confidence any! It just tells you that you have to get a little better at somethings.

    It's a training device!:bigthumb:
     
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    Congrats. Some people really let rejection kill their confidence.
    Keep in mind that its a server/bartenders job to flirt with you.
     
  5. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    Waitresses flirt because it helps them get better tips.

    edit - ^ didn't see your post when I made mine.
     
  6. quamen

    quamen New Member

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    should have realized that is what she was doing. I always always leave very hearvy tips, if they do a good job. They usually get paid shit, and i feel their job isnt the easiet. If im by myself i will typically tip near 50 percent of the bill. either way i am looking on the bright side of things, because i also have to realize a number really doesnt mean anything. when u have the lady in bed naked, then u know u did a good job, until then i will just keep hitting the nail until it is sunk.
     
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    Chip Chipperson New Member

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    learn to game sober
     
  8. quamen

    quamen New Member

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    i agree to this 100 percent
     
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    :eek4:
    You can come to my steakhouse any time.
     
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    moses OMGWTFBBQ

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    you sound like you're drunk when you make posts.
     
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    nice!

    You miss 100% of the shots that you don't take.
     
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    quamen New Member

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    maybe i missed something, but when your reading something you cant hear it. how do you hear a sound in a post?
     

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