I like rubbing one out far more than I like having sex

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by seventh circle, Oct 22, 2008.

  1. It feels better and I get more of an adrenaline rush and it doesn't take nearly as much time. I have a steady gf and lately I've been wanting to come up with excuses to not have sex.
     
  2. Falconer

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    You're bored with your gf.
     
  3. It's been 2 months :dunno:
     
  4. i looked around for a similar thread
     
  5. Falconer

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    Time doesn't matter. You don't get bored after x amount of time every time.

    How would you rate sex with your gf?
     
  6. i dont even know what i'd rate it at. i dont get excited by it.
     
  7. not sure. no meds. happiest i have ever been. tired yes
     
  8. hell no, i like the companionship and she cracks me up and we make each other laugh like crazy

    i do get this feeling that shes been bigger guys than me though. i mean i am pretty damn small :o
     
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    This is so common you wouldn't even believe it, man.

    I had the same trouble with my ex-wife. For me, it was because we were having troubles and I kept finding her less and less attractive.

    My guess is that it's something similar...you are losing attraction for her in one way or the other.

    BTW, is Deborah your gf? :big grin:
     
  10. Falconer

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    So are you insecure about your sex life and that is subconsciously turning you off?
     
  11. :dunno:

    ive never felt small before
     
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    So that is what's going on then?
     
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    how are you sure she's been with huge guys before?
     
  14. KindlyCuddly

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    maybe your prefer the control/tightness of gripping your own penis to having to deal with pleasing her at the same time. :dunno: or you may be afraid that she doesn't think you're big enough. this isn't rare at all.
     
  15. all i know is that i like one over the other
     
  16. just seems that way :dunno:
     
  17. b1u3b3rr135

    b1u3b3rr135 OMG WTF IS THAT?!?

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    i don't see how you don't wanna have sex. I are confused
     
  18. probably i just had to tell someone about it. i dont have anyone to talk to about these types of things
     
  19. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    lol, mt bf is too busy playing WOW and watching sports, I dont think he has enough time left to post on a forum.

    To the TS, what I can understand from your post is she is just not tight enough for you maybe, so you dont like the sex?
    I don't think she can change that easily(I heard kegel exercises help though). So maybe you are not just physically compatible. In this case there is nothing you can do and if it really bothers you you should stop dating her.
     
  20. I've felt this way before :dunno:

    But the last time I had a gf was last year and before that was never so I'm not about to go break up with her
     
  21. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    how does she feel about it? doesn't she nag at you because of not getting sex?

    so you think she is not tight enough, right?
     
  22. no she doesnt know. i havent put off sex, just said that ive thought about it

    i have no idea what it is. maybe shes just not slutty enough for me :hs:
     
  23. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    ok dude, I can't understand what your problem is. once you said she has been with big guys before, and now you say she is not slutty enough??!
     
  24. im insecure about my size and she doesn't do much for me sexually. does that make sense?
     
  25. just wanted to talk to someone about it :hs:
     

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