i last too long...

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by Martin Atchet, Nov 5, 2008.

  1. i always thought it was a good thing to last 45mins + but the girl i am with now isn't too into it. we have sex for around 30-45 mins and she has to stop because she dries out and it starts to hurt. we use lube but she gets sore. the first time i had sex ever, even with no condom, it took me an hour and a half to finish. and eventually the girl was like "its starting to hurt can i just suck you off?" is there any way to bring the stamina down some? haha...embarrassingggggg.
     
  2. no lol today

    no lol today Soy la bailarina de la muerta. OT Supporter

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    lube or cream to make ya more sensitive.
     
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    ww_Crimson New Member

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    I'll take a couple minutes off you.. Just started kegels.. we'll see if they pay off.
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    How often do you masturbate?
     
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    kronik85 New Member

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    how often do you masturbate, how much foreplay do you have? i
     
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    knucks Active Member

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    No one stays wet forever :dunno:
     
  7. BATMANs

    BATMANs New Member

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    cut or uncut?
     
  8. cut, masturbate couple times a week, and shes wet starting out but it only lasts for a little while. foreplay normally lasts like 10-20 mins ish if i remember correctly.
     
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    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    i've fucked my girl for hours with no problems

    you guys need to step it up and turn her on more
     
  10. i really don't think thats the problem. i make her squirt most times and she's super into it and would tell me if she wasn't since we've known each other for like 7 years.
     
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    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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  12. Viper

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    I've always said that girls wanting a guy to last long is just a myth.

    They want exactly what you want: to get their orgam(s) and be done with the actual sex part.

    It's not the length of the sex that matters, it's the amount of pleasure you bring her. If you can give her mindblowing sex in 8 minutes, she'll enjoy that just as much as sex for an hour.

    But that's not the point.

    Instead of thinking of grandma and baseball, maybe you need to think of Jessica Alba and mud wrestling. :dunno: :big grin:
     
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    IMO the best sex lasts from 20-30 minutes, including foreplay time.

    Stop masturbating so much if you are taking too long to get off.
    Bring it down to jacking off once a week. Should allow you to be more ready when it comes time for sex.
     
  14. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    If my bf and I had sex a minimum of 30 minutes every time I'd get tired of it as well. We get sore down there men. So you can go on and on about how he needs to make her more wet :)rolleyes:) or realize that not every woman has this fantasy about hour long sex. It's great every once in awhile but not every time.

    To the TS, I asked about masturbation because I was curious if you do it a lot. It's no secret that the more you masturbate the more you desensitize yourself in a way and that's why sex can take longer. I'd say cut it way down and see if that helps you :dunno:
     
  15. i'll just stop j/o and see what happens!
     
  16. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    in for updates
     
  17. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    It hasn't even been 24 hours yet :rofl:
     
  18. JordanClarkson

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    You've been together for 7 years. You might just be bored. Try some kind of role playing to spicen things up!
     
  19. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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  20. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    Shit last night I hadn't jerked off in a few days so I came so fast :rofl:

    Good thing I get her off easy by eating her out :noes:
     
  21. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    it happens to me too. If I stop masturbating I cum faster.:mamoru:
     
  22. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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  23. BATMANs

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    Sorry to here that.

    The foreskin is a natural gliding stimulator of the vaginal walls during intercourse, increasing a woman's overall clitoral stimulation and helping her achieve orgasm more quickly and more often. Without the foreskin's gliding action, they suggest, it can be more difficult for a woman to achieve orgasm during intercourse.

    Vaginal dryness can be a problem when the male partner is circumcised. The lack of a foreskin in the male partner produces symptoms similar to those of female arousal disorder. The gliding action possibly involved intercourse with an uncircumcised partner might help prevent the loss of vaginal lubrication.

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  24. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    women are not supposed to lubricate for hours the same way men are not supposed to be able to stay hard for hours! circumcision may or may not be a problem but is not the only or the most important reason for dryness!
     
  25. Viper

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    4 hours can be an eternity. Just ask JJJ. :o :big grin:

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    Fuck charts and graphs. :bowrofl:
     

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