So, I don't know if this has been brought up before, but I need this to be discussed and get everyone's thoughts. I don't really know how to explain it, but I'll do my best and be blunt as possible. Before I start, I'd like to say that cheating IS completely wrong and never acceptable, but I have always had this thought in the back of my head. I think that guys fall more victim than girls to cheating. Is it just me, or do all/most guys have no self-control when an attractive girl gives you the "cute look" like "Yeah, I want you" I know girls have the same urges, but let's put it into an example to further my point. So, you're at a party, with let's say nobody you know, so word can't get back to your girlfriend about anything that's going to happen. A very attractive girl keeps looking at you and giving you the look like "Let's go do the damn dirty" Can most guys just turn their head and pretend it didn't happen? Or even better, say to himself "Wow, I know my girlfriend won't find out, but I'm in love...I can't do this because it is absolutely immoral."? Now let's switch it around. A girl is at a party, and a guy is doing the same thing...giving her the look like "Let's go" Wouldn't you say a guy is more subject to fall victim to this kind of thing than a girl? Or do girls just do it in a better fashion to where they get away with it? Basically, in a nutshell...I think guys have a harder time dealing with these kind of situations, and that they should be given slack when they screw up. Like I said though, I'm not trying to say it's right for a guy to cheat...I just think that when guys decide to cheat, it's not like they want to wake up to that girl that they cheated WITH every morning...they're just trying to get their "fuck on" However, I think that when girls do it, they want more than just sex...like when a girl has sex with another guy, their body and minds SUBCONSCIOUSLY "fall in love" with the guy? This is just what I've heard, and somewhat experienced. I've had sex with a few girls JUST TO HAVE SEX, thinking that they are also thinking the same thing. I didn't want a commitment, or to make a promise to this girl in any such way...yet it seems like after, the girl wants more, not more sex, but to spend time with me, to get to know me, to "go out to coffee". Ack. Guys just wanna fuck sometimes, and let it be over. Girls want a commitment. Now this isn't in every single case, I know there are some guys out there with the thoughts I just described as the girls having, and vice versa...I'm just saying the majority. I hope this was easy to understand =( Any arguments?