im considering getting my ears pierced, but i really dont know much about it. how much does it cost? should i go to like claires or a real place? what happens if it pulls out? how long does it take to heal? will it close if i leave the ring out? will there be any way to tell that i had one that healed? does it leave scar tissue of some sort? i dont really want to stretch it, ill leave it like 14g prolly. do stretches heal? or are people with them always going to have big holes? thanks!