I just found out that the girl I've been getting serious with

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  1. Capt. Hammer

    Capt. Hammer PM me for rates on express consent. OT Supporter

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    ...has a boyfriend who's just returned from his school for Christmas.

    She tells me that she still loves him because they've been together for so long, and she says that he never makes her feel the way I have, and after meeting me, she doesn't feel anything towards him anymore.

    I would like to get involved with her, but after what she's done to her current boyfriend, it makes me wonder if she'd do the same thing to me. :eek3: :o
     
  2. RockChick

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    she tells you that she loves HIM but after meeting you she doesnt feel anything for HIM anymore?

    do i get that right? i'm a lil confused.
     
  3. Capt. Hammer

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    Yes.

    She was with me when she was talking on the phone with him, and they both say that they love each other before hanging up.

    I'm not sure whether she has an incredibly skewed view of love, or just uses the term loosely.

    Or maybe she really does love him in the meaning that she will always care about him, and want him to succeed, even if she's not with him.
     
  4. RockChick

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    so they are still together but she doesnt feel anything for him but tells him that she loves him and is probably not gonna leave him (cos she loves him).... and at the same time kinda wants something with you cos of certain reasons...

    personally i think that girl needs help and you should think twice before starting anything with her.... smells like HS drama.
     
  5. Capt. Hammer

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    Nah, we're almost completely through with college, this isn't HS bullshit.
     
  6. RockChick

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    that chick sounds like drama in general.... age or education doesnt mean someone acts like an adult or whatever and that chick definitely has some serious problems.

    she is cheating on her man (more or less), leading him on and keeping you on the side too.... seriously, move on.
    you watch her doing it to her man... so maybe she will leave him, you will get together and then she will meet another guy and do the same shit with you... if thats what you want, go for it.
     
  7. Capt. Hammer

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    This whole situation sucks.
     
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    I'd be gone asap.
     
  9. RedVsBlue

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    Run!!!!!!!!!
     
  10. JohnJohnJohnson

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    What is this "run" crap? Even if it ends badly I'd want to follow through with it until I knew what was going to happen. Right now there's a lot of uncertainty about the whole thing, so man up and communicate more clearly than ever .
     
  11. purplebeast

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    Their is no uncertanty about the fact that she two timed her "BF". Thas enough to run from her.
     
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    You're just bitter, is how I feel about that. There is no certainty between two different people. Dealing with that phact is better than denying it.
     
  13. purplebeast

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    Yes, two different guys. One common link- A cheating girl.
     
  14. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    She would. She has already shown you that she will not hesitate to cheat if the opportunity comes along. Don't let yourself be fooled into thinking that you are special and that she would cheat WITH you but never cheat ON you. She's been lying to both you and her bf this whole time and from the sounds of it she doesn't even think she's doing anything wrong. Liars and cheaters do no make good girlfriends.
     
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    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    I just saw that you posted this in another thread

    How could you say that and then still be thinking about being with this chick?
     
  16. JohnJohnJohnson

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    Oh sure, woo woo, rock on with the hellfire and brimstone, dirty sluts, cheating whores, cocksucking bitches, unfaithful women, etc. Old and powerful words, for an old and powerful resentment. Love has no rules or predictibility or the slightest tiniest most remote hint of morals in it and that is the one common link.
     
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    True, there are no rules in love. Nor is it predictable. Only thing you can do, its not put ur self in any more risk than necessary. Why risk falling for someone that has already proven to be unfaithful? Maybe with time she will change. But right now she just cheated. Until her state mind changes, she is unstable and its very likely to cheat on him.


    In a sence, she already cheated on him. He is hanging out w/ this girl she is falling for. Only to find out this whole time she had a previous ongoing relationship with very strong feelings. She played both dudes like chumps. In my book, thats enough to start a retreat.
     
  18. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Who are you REALLY trying to convince, here? Us, or yourself?
     
  19. low20

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    she kinda IS doing the same thing to you...not inthe same way, but your just fnding out that she has a bf...i donno how long u 2 have been hitting it off, but you would think that you would know about a bf....if she didnt tell you,and now you find out, and shes playing him, i wouldnt get involved cuz it will prolly happen to you...
     
  20. Devilish

    Devilish Remind me AGAIN

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    Once a cheater, always a cheater is crap. If it happens once in a relationship though and you forgive someone then I think its more likely it will happen again, but just because someone may have cheated on a bf/gf in HS doesn't mean they'll keep doing it in every relationship.

    If I was in your position, I'd be telling her that it's friends only until she breaks up with this guy. If that happens, then it's up to you to decide how much you want to trust her. You've got to take a risk before you know if it's really worth it or not, don't you?
     
  21. Capt. Hammer

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    Yeah, good call

    I think I'm going to end it
     
  22. Capt. Hammer

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    If you cheat on someone, even once, you will never be able to tell anyone that you've never cheated.
     
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    Yeah, i kinda hear that.

    We've been together for like 2 months already :hs:
     
  24. Devilish

    Devilish Remind me AGAIN

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    That is quite true, but it doesn't mean you are going to do it again.
     

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