It's been about a year since my ex broke up with me after cheating on me and was seeing someone else before she did that. It's taken me that long to get over her. Then there is this girl who works across the street from where I work and when I first saw her, I was just astounded by how incredibly cute she was. I didn't have the balls to ask her out for about 2 weeks or so. Then on tuesday, I was pretty sick, and I went to work after taking some tylenol and dayquil. I think it was the cocktail of disassociates that did it, but I asked her out and she agreed. This girl is great and amazing. She is cutehot as hell and just as dorky and nerdy as I am. She nearly about creamed when I told her that I love Chuck. Because I can relate to him, what with being in an IT person and fighting ninjas and other people of various martial arts descent (seriously, I have been challenged and have had to fight ninjas.). I had to explain the ninja fighting thing to her and she loved it. We went to dinner and watched sweeney todd and then hung out at a bookstore because she loves books. Halfway through sweeney todd, she started snuggling up to me and holding my hand and stuff. I think she could be real girlfriend material. She's really modest but really witty and funny. She doesn't have any real esteem issues either. I mean, fuck she doesn't even have pictures of herself on myspace. My biggest fear is scaring her off though. I don't know if she's ready for a relationship or not. But I can definitely see myself having one with her. She is great and is just as nerdy as I am. I'm pretty cynical and I try to find fault in everyone. The things I find faulty in her are pretty negligible and found in everyone so it's not really a big deal. How do I not try to push a relationship really fast and not make her want to run away? Cliffs: Met girl, turns out she's fucking awesome. Want to have relationship but not scare her away.