I just broke up with my girlfriend

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  1. Turcle

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    :wtc: I miss her, I want her back I just know deep down we can't work it out. And she keeps saying we could be happy. And that its not my fault. She says she still wants just me and not for me to change. She keeps saying Im a coward and all this other stuff
     
  2. <Mark>

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    Im in basically the same position. It sucks, my gf and I finally broke up yesterday for good and I am really down about it. I miss her so much already.
     
  3. Turcle

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    she keeps telling me she wants to see me and just hold me and be with me
     
  4. BTA

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    Details on why you broke up with her?
     
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    Oh yeah that one, dude trust me you'll find way better than that chick
     
  7. I know it hurts to feel like you have loved and lost, but when you find another to love you will swear that you have never loved this way before......
     
  8. Turcle

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    She keeps calling and crying saying she needs me and loves me and in her car saying she needs me to come pick her up...i need to turn off my phone but i cant
     
  9. cuz

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    do it, i totally get that its hard for you, but it seems like it would be for the best. let her go
     
  10. invis

    invis drag them down

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    I broke up with my GF today, but I feel good about it.
     
  11. Moonlight

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    "Think of love and the pain of breaking up as exercise for your heart. The pain is tough, true. But it only means your heart is getting stronger."
    -Anonymous-

    turn off ur phone and move on
     
  12. Turcle

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    The hugest problem is shes tried to kill herself twice before I even met her. Thats blood I don't want on my hands.
     
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    Psycho chicks... They were fine before you met them, they will be fine after you forget about them. Plenty more to date...

    Move on.
     
  14. Penny1484

    Penny1484 cute but kind of evil

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  15. BTA

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    She's tried to kill herself twice before and is still alive.

    Therefore, she is either 1. An attention whore or 2. a total failure

    Trust me, its #1. Anybody who really wants to kill themselves doesnt fail two times in a row. Let her pretend to cut her arms up if she wants to, but it's not your problem.

    10 bucks she latches onto some other poor fool in 2 weeks.
     
  16. Turcle

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    I talked with her today, and we got back together, she promised she would change and be more accepting of me and my friends and all that...so well see how it goes...i hope it works out
     
  17. Wolfden

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    Good Luck - I think your going to need it - people just don't change over night, sure they will seem like it at first, but in the long run it all seems to go back to the way they really are, but hey stranger things have happened
     
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    If it doesn't work, get out and stay out. I hate to say this, but given how she acts, her new found personality may be short lived.
     
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    whats ur heart tell u....u aint marrying your frat brothers...so if u like/love this girl then make it work somehow
     
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    good luck with that, but based on experiance, it won't last very long. :hsugh:
     
  21. crudmuffin

    crudmuffin Aussie

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    I broke up with my gf 6weeks ago, I miss her so much. I know she is seeing someone else and I hate that, she thinks we can still be friends but I cant not when it hurts so much. I was with her for over 2yrs.
     
  22. Turcle

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    Why'd you break up?
     
  23. EX-JAY

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    I am in the same boat; dated this chick for 5 years on and off. After the third year, I knew this wasn't what I wanted but stayed with her, thinking that some magic pill would make us happy and forget all the issues she/I had. I fucked myself over by staying in this relationship. But it would have been worse to stay there longer and thus make our break up even harder. Time heals, but it is hard to see this now.
     
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    it dosen't seem like she could change her attitude since those things that bug her today will still bug her tomorrow. Its encouraging that she wants to work it out. It's discouraging that she wants to kill herself. Maybe she'll grow out of that drama as she gets older.
     
  25. AmCo

    AmCo Haters goin' Hate

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    freedommmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
     

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