who deal with the spouses of the military members.. I wanted to bang my head against the wall after hearing some of them ramble on and on. I went a spouses commanders call tonight... As you know the husband is currently deployed and will be that way for a few more months and there is a deployment leaving soon. a group of wives were playing 20 questions and tossing staments liek "I think you guys don't know how hard it is to blah blah blah blah blah" and then something about christmas alone with a 6 month old.. WHATEVER your SPOUSE IS IN THE MILITARY HE WILL WORK LONG HOURS AND BE GONE FOR SOME B-DAYS and EVEN CHRISTMAS THANKSGIVING .. ECT.. I would snap if I had to deal with these questions and statements day in and day out.. one chick even asked when the 10 hour shifts were going to end because its hard on the kids.. WTF your kid is a 2 months!.. I have a feeling these ladies will call about everything from needing the lawn mowed to changing light bulbs.. I think I have called them once and it was to help me fax mikes orders to get a discount at Geico.