At 5'11" I weighed 138lb about 3 years ago, I weigh 192lb today. I've put on a ton of weight, but I don't know it. I'm not really happy with my arms, they just aren't big enough though the definition and striations are there, even a nice seperation from the anterior delt to the upper arm, but its still not enough. I also lack girth in my shoulders, I just look like a bitch. My forarms are 16.5" around, my bicep is only 17". Anyway I was out talking to girls the other night, and I ran into a cool guy who frankly looked much much better than I do. I felt crushed for some reason. I don't even feel like I can wear a short-sleeve shirt because well, what's the point in even going to the gym anymore if I've failed? I'd post a picture, but you'll all think this thread is a joke. I know its a stupid emotion to think I have to be the best of the best in every way to enjoy or attempt something, but if I'm not ever going to be fucking jacked, then why am I still trying? I've been spending 7-hours per week in the gym for 3 years, and I almost have nothing to show for it. I feel like I look like that guy who just works-out on sundays. Then I take it back to girls. Why would any girl want me in her presence when there are other guys out there who look better? I mean sure, they want a guy who's cool and intelligent, but most people can't determine intellectual superiority in a 10-minute convo, but they can determine that you look like shit and there are much better options out there by people who actually make progress in the gym. flame me.