Discussion in 'Lifestyle' started by doublegunsstk, Feb 20, 2007.
And I rarly see him. The culture hates me I guess.
we can be friends online!
I used to only have a very select number of gay friends - it just took time and exposure for me and now I love our community more than ever - and totally enjoy meeting the incredibly diverse people who make up the queer populace
i dunno if this is any type of response you were looking for. but i doubt I would hate you if we knew each other IRL
Probably not -- I am affable. I just hold harsh opinions about people acting a particular way to "fit" into a culture. This makes me come off as an a** to some people. Also, I do not club, go to bars, or any of that stuff -- so my social networks are limited by MB, online, etc.
i used to be pretty harsh on other, more, how should I say it, vocal and shining members of our community... then, by some magical power, I simply didnt care anymore - I tend to surround myself with a lot of very smart, open, progressive people - and it has really helped open my mind.
well until my current boyfriend, I had no gay friends
he loves to have the cute double date thing, so he tends to push to hang out with other gay couples
ive went from none to quite a few over the past few months
they are actually interesting when you meet them
most of them i dont get ral personal with, kinda keep them at arms length
but gay people are alot of fun, u automatically have something big in common with them
something VERY big..but ive found that just having that in common can be VERY boring.
Those dates when you just sit, and look at each other.. and go.. yep... soooo, you're gay too? imagine that... wow... welp.... you're gay? wow... pretty neat. yep.. welp... okay... yep. kill me.
Or pride meetings are pretty annoying to at college. We know someone is gay, they are in the club and told us, but they keep telling us -- like some how our memory only lasts for a week.
Also, I never lived in a built up area -- so, homsexuality was more closeted.
lol yeah i can see that being a problem, i guess i didnt mean the only thing in common, it just gives u at least one thing
fag hags are where its at as well
we have a couple hags that like to go to the club with us
I have one....he is like the brother I never had
he has tons of gay friends but I never hang out with them....they are flamboyant and he knows I don't like that
I simple say: "can you please stop fullfilling a negative socio-culturally built sterotype causing harm to my access to strategic resources --- wait lemme clarify -- I wish people would stop being cliches' "
The clarification part was dervied from six feet under.
After I say that, I add +1 to the list of people that hate me
i just got done watching all 5 seasons of six feet under
you'll never hearn me say that, however you would hear me say "I hate those queer friends of yours"
Yea, but that is to nice. You have to place some blame to get people all fired up.