SRS I have nobody to confide to.

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  1. kingtoad

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    Not a single person. I feel trapped. I have so many things I want to say, so many things to let out. I want to be heard by someone... I want someone to listen. I have nobody. Not one person, and I have never had a person. I am venting now because I'm not venting about anything specific, and don't ask me to confide towards OT, because I've tried that method once before -- It's bullshit.

    Just wanted to let off some steam. Thanks, OT.
     
  2. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    You always have us :hug:

    Do you have a pet? I used to chat away to my cat all the time :)
     
  3. kingtoad

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    Last time I went in here people from OT took screenshots and passed it around via PM. :wtc:

    Fuck you all.
     
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    i dont really have anyone to talk to either but i do have a baby girl to play with so i'm ussually ok but if you ever need someone to talk to pm me for im info

    and i promise i am one of the non-judging nice people here :)
     
  5. kingtoad

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    Thank you. I have fish. That's about it. My land lord won't let me have any furry things that make noise.
     
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    i promise ALL OTers arent asshole's some of us are nice people :) i would like to think that i am one of the nice people :wavey:
     
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    I have black stools and diahrea, and I took nothing that could make my stool black except alot of NSAIDs lately for my headaches. In short: I'm bleeding out my ass. My guts are churning so much I can't even sleep.

    Just wanted to share that with you.
     
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    Sorry to hear that :eek3:, but also :rofl: for sharing!
     
  9. kingtoad

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    Go back to C&P where you think you know something.
     
  10. Sotangledup

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    Aw I feel the same same same way. Lately I have been thinking of how much I need WANT WISH I had a best fried. I don't and I also feel trapped, almost sick from holding everything in.

    I also do have a little 2 yr old but she's only two.

    LIke that person said not all OTers are assholes, we'll listen to you if you want us to :)
     
  11. Peyomp

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    Thats not nice. This is my home turf :(

    Did you catch that I confided my problem to you? Why you? Well... why not? ;)

    In my experience, in order to have people to listen to you... you have to be a good listener yourself. If you are, if you have a genuine interest in others, then you'll have no problems finding people to confide in.

    And I'd just like to confide that your change in avatar is mildly traumatic for me, but that I'm dealing with it.
     
  12. kingtoad

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    I'm a very great listener. I'm just can't confide to those who confide to me.
     
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    So in other words we might restate your problem. You said that you have noone to confide in. In fact, the problem is that you are unable to confide in others. Its not them. Its you.

    Why do you think that is?
     
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    I have nobody to confide to because I cannot confide to the people who confide to me because they are the source of many of my problems.
     
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    How can anyone cause you problems but you? Are these people family?
     
  16. kingtoad

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    No, these are people I have become emotionally attached to.
     
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    i cause you no problems, you are not emotionally attached to me
     
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    You scare me because you're an OTer. :wtc:
     
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    So how do they cause you problems by confiding in you? You can't handle it? I fail to see how someone confiding in you can cause you problems. Sounds like you're externalizing an internal phenomenon. I.e. not taking responsibility for your own plight. Unless... did they kill someone? Did you have to help them move a body?
     
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    you have a sub. check me out, reveiw my past posts.

    i also run a parenting site. and find most oters appauling
     
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    Annonymous threads FTW :big grin:
     
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