Dated a few girls, and had kind of bad experiences as a whole and one disasppointment (was going well until something random happened). Relationships were meh except for one long one. Now, I look at a lot of females, even pretty ones, and just get disgusted - not in a turned off way, but I can't help but look at them as an object. I see how they act in bars, and normal conversation seems to get nowhere. I then play the jerk card, with mixed results, but the ones that like it I have nothing to relate to them with. The only girls I can have legitimate, fun conversation with without being a jerk or getting bored of their actions and general immaturity are my friends. I would date a few of them , but it will not go anywhere. I find, and no offense ladies, that most females are into the most boring things in the world and cannot hold a conversation amongst themselves unless they talk about marriage, relationship issues, or how they are bummed being single and not married at 21. Am I wrong for thinking they are psychos?. I can think of TWO girls I love talking to, and actually make me happy, the rest I cannot fathom being around. I can't even recognize the worth in becoming involved with someone - I find that making myself happy is a lot easier and more of a payoff than worrying about a relationship. And I'm young, 21, in college senior year.