SRS I have no confidence

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  1. Titan King

    Titan King New Member

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    Argh, my lifes been hell. Lets start, this hacker hacked my account and spoke evil or evil things to this girl I really liked. I just talked to her like for a week after asking her for her addy then my account got hacked. In short, she thought it was me acting all messed up and threatening her and she blocked and deleted me. I found out all this when I got my password back.

    Apparently her best friends account also got hacked and now she thinks it was me. She absolutely hates me and her two best friends (they're like sisters) hate me aswell. I've tried so many things, making new addies to talk to her to tell her it wasn't me. I even got my friend to send her message asking that I was wanting to know why she doesn't like me. The reply was "He can just want".

    Argh, I have no confidence to approach her in real life ESPECIALLY among her 2 best friends where they always stick together. I think I'm pretty much obessessed UNTIL she finds out the truth, this has been bugging me like a unfinished task.

    I just don't no matter what you say, have the confidence to approach her, I've tried everything else but I can't let it go. She's in half my classes and I see her half the time. I can't ignore her because I think I have feelings for her. But I don't have the confidence.

    WHAT CAN I DO?
     
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    kill yourself
     
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    Titan King New Member

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    If you have thoughts like that.....

    Why don't YOU cut your wrists and black your eyes.

    Emo.

    Ape out.

    PS. I thought this was the Asylum, can't you just give me better advice, it may be a joke to you but it's not to me.
     
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    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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  6. KSNIPPY

    KSNIPPY As lost as i get i will find you

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    wtf :ugh:

    ban
     
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    :rofl::rofl: get a pair of nuts you AVless little girl and talk to the her. It's no big deal. If she's into you then she'll let you know. Women are attracted to men who have confidence. If you act shy and weak around her then your wasting your time.

    It's a numbers game, try and try again.
     
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    Talk to a girl WHO HATES YOU?

    Talk to a girl WHO THINKS YOUR A HACKER?
     
  9. KSNIPPY

    KSNIPPY As lost as i get i will find you

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    if youve tried to tell her the truth and she simply wont listen then theres not much more you can do. i guess all you can do is give her time to cool down over it all and then maybe shell hear you out. its pretty childish of her not to hear you out though.
     
  10. Titan King

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    It's been 2 years. And she still ignores me.

    That's shocking. We're in the same school.
     
  11. KSNIPPY

    KSNIPPY As lost as i get i will find you

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    oh, diddnt know it was that long.

    so all of this happened 2 years ago. and shes still pissed at you and wont listen to what you have to say or believe you?
     
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    Yeah, her and her friends. One of her friends is quite popular aswell, making it harder to approach them.

    It makes stuff hard, I feel really self-conscious at times around her and other times when she's not there, I feel completely fine with the girls around me and we have a good laugh.

    But when she's around me, I tend to "Manipulate circumstances to my advantage" so when I make a good joke, I'm always wondering if shes listening etc etc
     
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    Approaching her and talking to her IS the correct answer.
    However...
    I can't find fault with you because I acted the same way in my dating years. Nothing was more intimidating then talking to a girl I hadn't been 'formally' introduced too.
    I would have acted the same way in your situation.

    That being the case, the next best thing you can do is sit tight.
    But remember, just because you are waiting for her DOESN'T mean you shouldn't be looking.
    If you find someone in the mean time and then she comes around... that is her problem not yours.
     
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    Yeh thanks but I have tried to "look" for another girl so maybe I would be able to stop thinking about her. It's not happened.

    My friend, who's a girl (Abbie), gave me the advice to simply Completely Ignore Her and that eventually she would speak to me.

    But everytime I see her, I am reminded of a "unfinished task"
    Thats the only problem, I know I will be fine once she KNOWS and has ACCEPTED the TRUTH.
     
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    you are in high school friend. remember this girl isnt anything special, shes prolly just hot. you are putting her on a pedestal; just dont treat her like shes important

    girls in high school wont date you if you dont have social standing. which judging by the fact that you ask about it on the net, you dont have standing or confidnece or value in their eyes.

    id say chaulk this one up as a loss and dont worry about what others think
     
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    Not really, she's not that kind of girl as for standing like I said before I'm completely relaxed around girls when she's not there and we always have a good laugh. The only standing I have is being the most intelligent by the "popular people" not in a bad way.

    Confidence is the only thing I lack. Also this isn't america. Is there anything that boosts confidence?
     
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    yea being intelligent wont get you laid. being drunk will. tell her you and a buddy got some booze, invite her and her friend over for drinks

    that will get you some
     
  18. Titan King

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    IF I could do that I could do anything.

    thats the problem, SHE HATES ME then why would she come over for a drink?
     
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    yea that sucks; maybe you shoulldnt worry about what every single person thinks about you. she will respect you more if you dont care than if you worry about it. you cant make someone not hate you. you CAN however, not care.
     
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    Yeah, I see what you mean. I am that kind of person who cares what people think.

    Thanks for the advice.
     
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    Yea thats one of those things as you get older you will care less about that. I imagine you are around 16-17 or so.

    By the time you get to college it will all be irrelevant (you are the 'smart kid' right?) so dont worry about. go after a lot of different girls in high school and have a good time. dont get hung up one dumb girl. Shes not that important to you in the long run, if she doesnt like you it will not affect you whatsoever if you are happy with yourself.
     
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    shut the fuck up....in for ban!
     
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    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    yea seitka locked my thread in the ban request que.... so im not sure why hes not banned yet
     
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    There is truth to this.
    Stop giving a shit about what she thinks and this will all clear up.
     
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    Thanks guys, you've been a great help, especially Yuppy

    Thanks,
     

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