Here's a story: Went on a first date with a girl yesterday. She called it the longest first date she's ever been on. We went to the museum, dinner, walked around the lake and then to my place. We made out for awhile, went to the grocery store to get some food, came back, made out some more, watched a movie, she fell asleep and spent the night. Here's the thing, I told her she was in no condition to drive home coz she was tired and lived about 30 minutes away. I told her I had jammies she could wear and I wouldn't "try anything." She trusted me and I gave her some jammies to wear. We cuddled in my bed and I made her take off her top because I wanted to feel her skin. But that's all I wanted! She even asked me, "Is there anything you want to say to me?" I said no. I honestly didn't want to fuck her, and in some cases I'm not very physically attracted to her (she's gaining weight in certain areas). What the hell is wrong with me though? Seriously! It's been a year since I've had sex, and I know she would've let me. This isn't anything new either. My previous relationships have all been a struggle when it comes to the sex. Note that it's just the sex though. I'm very affectionate with everything else. What can I do to get some kind of sexual appetite?