FRK I have a slave... Suggestions?

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  1. jerky1280

    jerky1280 Member

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    I'm pretty new to the freaky life... but loving it! I've entered into my first master/slave relationship over the past few weeks, and it's great. I was traveling this past week, and had her call to ask permission to masterbate, and then call again to ask permission to orgasm. HOT. She's quite experienced in the sexual arena, but this is her first relationship as a sub. Just looking for additional suggestions to see what piques my curiosity.

    I also wanted to say that as a newbie dom, I have the utmost respect for both sides of the relationship. The responsibility is a bit overwhelming at times. However, there is no feeling in the world like having my pet look up at me with her big green eyes full of utter and compete trust. This is a new type of relationship to me which I am looking forward to experiencing and learning.

    Thanks! :wavey:
     
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  2. IslanderOffRoad

    IslanderOffRoad Do you even lift kit? OT Supporter

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    if you're the dom why did you have to get permission to masturbate?
     
  3. TigreTek

    TigreTek omega member OT Supporter

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    had HER call for permission.
     
  4. jerky1280

    jerky1280 Member

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    Correct Tigre, thanks for clearing that up.
     
  5. Lovely Atlantis

    Lovely Atlantis Luscious Lovely Lady!

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    I don't know that you're going to get much for help from here unfortunately. Most of the members here aren't in true dom/sub relationships (myself included). However, if you are a part of fetlife you might want to check out the Masters and Slaves group. I've browsed that group before and they have a bunch of good discussions about what sorts of things they make their slaves do (ie: monitoring communications, sleep on the floor, etc)
     
  6. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    restrictions on what she can wear or not wear (send her out on errands dressed super slutty or in no panties or soemthing)
    Make her do specific things when she eats (i used to cut my sandwiches into 3 pieces all the time becuase tigre said so)
    speech restrictions. Pick a word or phrase she can't use or a phrase she has to use at least n times a day.
    Play games like follow the finger with your nose (she has to follow you finger with her nose, where ever you put it, she puts it within n seconds)
    bathroom privilages need permission. (that one is HILLARIOUS)
     
  7. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    make rules for what kind of shoes she can wear in your pressence. I was only allowed heels taller than 3" when cookign or cleaning or when i was tigre. he was kind enough to make exceptions for certain situations.
     
  8. TigreTek

    TigreTek omega member OT Supporter

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    best one i've ever come up with.
     
  9. jerky1280

    jerky1280 Member

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    Thanks for the great suggestions guys. :wiggle: We're going out to dinner for a friend's birthday tonight and I'm having her wear a short dress, no underwear, and a butt plug... Should be fun!
     
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    TigreTek omega member OT Supporter

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    how long has she worn one before? that's a bad place to test the limits on how long she can wear it. (it'll get painful quick)

    has she worn a plug in public like that? might want to take it in smaller steps unless she's mentally capable of so much exposure.
     
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    TigreTek omega member OT Supporter

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    now i'm getting back into ubertop mode.

    i really want to see your reply before i say more about the plug idea.
     
  12. Mr. Monopoly

    Mr. Monopoly OT Supporter

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    If she can handle it, a ginger plug worn for almost any amount of time will have her burning.
     
  13. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    ok. Seriously. I did that and wanted to die..
     
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    :rofl: Your use of n in descriptions of sex has me all hot and bothered.
     
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    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    Sorry, I'm taking a statistics course right now so I'm all up in my variables....
     
  17. Figori

    Figori Taking BRC to the EXTREME. OT Supporter

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    Bleh.. Statistics....


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    Butt plugs in public (for an extended period of time) could get risky. Remote controlled vibrating eggs... I've heard good things about those. Have a little remote in your pocket and just give her a buzz or two out of nowhere (like, mid conversation/mid-phrase). You get the picture...
     
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    TigreTek omega member OT Supporter

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    if you used lube it acted as a chemical barrier. try using just water. :mamoru:
     
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    Mr. Monopoly OT Supporter

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    :eek4: Good point. I respect yo gangsta. (/movie quote)
     
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    do you think the world was always as ill as today? man...
     
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    Ginger = :eek4:
    Don't try that one in public.

    Since we're into variables here, have her edge n times a day without orgasm...

    edit: base it on the balance of a practically unattainable quota of the stuff in PE's list :big grin:
     
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  22. jerky1280

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    We discussed it and have put that one on hold for the time being. After getting to "know" each other a little better, we're going to work on basic anal play a bit more before getting into more advanced stuff.

    As far as mental exposure... She's mentally comfortable doing pretty much anything I ask of her. It's the physical limitations we're working on. I'm on the lookout for a very flexible butt plug in the mean time...

    She left me a little note after I left for work this morning:

    "I decided to clean up a bit before I went home, so you don't have to tonight. I started thinking about your sexy body and beautiful eyes... your breath on my neck... so I masterbated on your bed. I made a mess and decided to wash your sheets and pillowcases... Thank you for a great weekend with some amazingly rough lovemaking. I'll talk to you later tonight. Thank you again, Master."
     
  23. Matrix0507

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    Hmmm...sounds to me you should have made HER clean it up. And there is a fine line between respecting your sub and sounding like a pushover.
     
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    awesome and awesome :bowdown:x12
     
  25. Drunken Karnie Midget

    Drunken Karnie Midget In Yeo We Trust, All Others Pay Cash OT Supporter

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    this whole thread is :wackit:

    Too bad nessa isn't that extreme... though i've got a pretty good hunch that i'm not either.
     

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