I have a serious question about boobies, OP

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  1. GlassUser

    GlassUser send an email not a pm OT Supporter

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    Say you have a fairly attractive girl. Say this girl has nice boobies. Say you're out, and you meet this girl. Now if you spend the evening staring at the girl's boobies and ignoring the rest of her, she'll probably get pissed off, and rightly so. That's all well and good, but why would she wear something super low cut and a size too small after squeezing herself into a pushup bra if she's going to get pissed off about you looking at what she goes through so much effort to show off?
     
  2. krazywulph

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    She's probably just competing to be the hottest/sluttiest person there. I get the feeling girls try and show each other up like this. Also, she likes that you're staring at her tits, but she wishes you'd give her face some attention also.
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

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    I'm not here to dissect the psyche of that kind of woman (because I'm the owman with the big tits who usually covers them relatively well), but I can understand your frustration.

    As Dave Chappelle puts it, she might be wearing a whore's uniform...but she's not a whore :mamoru: Even if a girl flaunts her assets she wants you to appreciate them...but hopes you won't appreciate only them.
     
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    GlassUser send an email not a pm OT Supporter

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    Yeah, so why do we get yelled at for appreciating them? Especially when she's shy and quiet, but has a great voice and smile and eyes - but won't speak or grin or look at you. It's her own damn fault.
     
  5. MattThom01

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    Because no one would approach her otherwise?

    It's strange...women who want to be treated well dress like a whore, go to places where one can mainly find whores, then get upset when you look at them like whores.

    Ok, that's a general statement, but yes, we other guys feel your frustration.

    My advice? Don't expect to pick up women at places where the whore dressing is occurring.

    Realistically though, if she doesn't go out to those places that often, she's dressing like that because "that's how you dress when you go out to the bar or club" but isn't used to being treated that way.

    I'd say, if you have her number or will see her again, ask her out to a more casual, conservative outing, so she can dress how she expects to be treated.
     
  6. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Women increase their social value by revealing skin, chodes stand in the corner scared out of their minds, and then the chodes go onto internet forums and post about whores and the women go home with the men who actually approached them.
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    to the original poster...

    you can be as sexual as you please, just don't do it in a desperate way. do it in a way that turns her on, skip the date, get in car, flirt with her allllllll the way home, undress her and play with those amazing boobies. that is what they are there for.
     
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    Well when your buddy (female buddy) gives her your number and says to call you, even when you tell her not to, the not looking desperate bit is pretty much out of the question. Sigh.
     
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    I'm not looking for advice. I can pick up women just fine. I just want to know why they do this kind of crap.
     
  10. MattThom01

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    does it matter though? We could spend all day trying to figure out why people behave inconsistently, it wouldn't change anything.

    Go pick up a different woman, and I bet this will disappear from your mind entirely.
     
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    This woman is irrelevant except as an example. Quit fixating on just one woman, dude.
     
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    This thread isn't about me. And now I'm getting sucked into wasting my time on a pointless question.

    Hopefully someone else can give you the answer you are looking for.
     
  13. JohnJohnJohnson

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    ah. that could be ridiculous. i'm sorry for the ridiculousness in your life, that is just ridiculous.

    but still you should've gone up and said "that's exactly how i wanted to meet you, date by proxy!" or something funny to show her you were savvy
     
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    Yeah this friend . . . well I'd believe she'd intentionally sabotage my attempts to get another girl to keep me around so she could think she's choosing to not have me. But that's a subject for another thread.
     
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    i've never seen so many post counts in my life, and i'm 23.

    imo jealous female friends are very helpful
     
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    Yet I've still gone out with a different girl every night this weekend. Amazing how I find time for it all, huh?
     
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    i don't know but props
     
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    Actually my PPD was really high when I did on call work a few years ago. Now I might get 20 or so, unless it's raining or something like today. But I did get a call to set something up on tuesday, so I guess today I wasn't total idle.

    Edit: disclaimer, only one was anything like a date, the rest are just hanging out with good looking female friends. But they have good looking female friends...
     
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    Honestly, it is not worth it to try to analyze and find an explanation for as to why.
     
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    But I want to know.
     
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    it's a test to see if that's all you are focused on
     
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    wouldn't that kind of be like saying "look look look look" and expecting the person not to look though

    seems a bit odd
     
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    It doesn't matter...

    You are a man, you appreciate lots of things in a girl's body (like tits, ass, hair, eyes, and shape). If she spends time accentuating one them, then appreciate them.
     
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    Oh I do. I looked when I wanted and remember it well. I'm just curious.
     

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