ill try to keep this short.... As senior year of highschool was comming to an end, I met a really great girl and we became pretty good friends and we even went to prom together. Little did she know i was falling for her and eventually i decided to "ask her out". well as you can imagine she said she just wanted to be friends. That was almost 2 years ago and sadly I still have pretty strong feelings for her and since then she has move to the Netherlands (where shes from) to go to school there. the whole situation has been very hard on me, but you'd think her living on a different continent would be enough to get over her...but it didnt happen. we've had very deep discussions about the whole situation and shes been very understanding and caring about it. shes even admitted that she wouldnt take interest in some guys because she didnt think they'd care about her as much as i do (odd?) and she said if things were different we could be together...which was nice to hear but really didnt help much as she'll be over there for the next 3 years and only comes home for christmas and part of the summer break. People say that the best thing to do is to simply cut her out of my life until im over her. but thats has prooved very difficult as im also good friends with her brother and my parents are friends with her parents and ill soon be working for her dad. About two months ago me and her got into a fight (about an unrelated topic) and we didnt speak for about 4 weeks. During which time i was very angry with her and was so sure i was over her. but wouldnt you know it, my feelings for her came back and now i dont know what to do. I really care about her and she means a lot to me and sometimes i wonder if im in love with her, but i know i need to get over her, but i really dont know what to do anymore. Any advice would be much apreshiated.