I finally realized it. I'm not a virgin though, i've been with 4 women. I realize that's not a lot by OTs standards, but that's just me. The probelm was that over the last 4 years, i've had two g/fs that both had big initmacy issues. One was with a guy for 4 years almost and they never went past kissing. I was with her on and off for about a year or so. And she was a virgin when we started dating, and she was a virign when we broke up. 2nd g/f i had i dated for about 7 months, and she was a virgin as well, and we never slept with each other either. After 7 months we ended it. NOt That i didn't want to, but she wanted to wait for the right time, so i gave her space and time. It never happened. Between having those two g/fs, i slept with one other person. I never cheated on them ,never went outside the relationship. Now, the current problem. I'm going out with this really awesome girl. We've been on several dates, and i think she's starting to question why i haven't made a move on her besides kissing her. Why? well because we were out today, drinking and listening to some blues, and we're talking about each other, and she asks me "Aare you a goody two shoes?" That kind of made me suspect that she might be questioning whether i'll make a move on her at all. Do i want to? oh yes. she's a great girl, she's really sweet, and she's beautiful. For example, we were in here apt. one night, watching a movie, and it was hard enough for me to start kissing her, let alone make any other moves on her. It seems like after my last two g/fs, i have a block against it or something. Maybe it's lack of confidence, maybe it's lack of experience, maybe it's something else, i dont' know. But i do need advice, and definitely a LITTLE help. i don't want to lose my chances (for a good relationship) with this new girl.