I have a girl problem, help plz.

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  1. exxoizzle

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    This girl i really like and I have been going out for about a week and its all been well and good until yesterday her best freind tells me that she(My girlfreind) thinks im getting annoying. Im not sure what to do or how to act now, any help would be appreciated.
     
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    first of all, how old are you? and second.. don't call her every hour. and let her have some breathing room.. that would be my best guess.. either that, or your just an obnoxious dood..
     
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    She didnt say it to me, her best freind told me thats what she thinks. Nothing big really happened since we have only been going out for about a week, but maybe its that i have been calling, or texting too much.
     
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    I would say about 20 times text + call combined
     
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    are you f'en kidding me?

    Make plans with your friends this weekend that dont include her, call at most once a day, and dont get into texting back an forth. Give her a chance to miss you.

    give her a real compliment right before you leave. Not some cheesy you have beautiful eyes stuff. find something she works hard at and tell her she's good at it. you want to make her feel good and then give her a chance to miss that.
     
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    Will do. Thanks alot man
     
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    Why would you get the friend who went out on a limb to help him out in trouble? He should pretend its his idea.
     
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    I would have told the friend "Well, then I guess she better break up with me now, because I don't plan to change a thing!"
     
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    Now that we have the backstory (he's been smothering her), it makes a lot more sense.

    Like they said, give her some breathing room.
     
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    Ok give her breathing room.
    Thanks alot guys
     
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    it's a pretty easy rule...if someone is starting to annoy you, or you are annoying them, just get some space between the two of you, and let things cool down.

    It happens to just about everyone if you're around someone too much.
     
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    you have a backchannel that is open. This friend provided him with useful information. Why would you expose your source and risk losing valuable information?
     
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    and just to clarify, im not saying give her really good compliments all the time, or once a day. use them sparingly, so they will have effect. you are in a jam now, so now is the time to bust something good out.
     
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    You are speaking from a posistion of power where this guy has nearly "blown himself out" . He has made a crucial mistake and significantly lowered her interest in him. don't be too stuck on the rules man. Its ok the bend them in the bigger picture. He needs to generate some positive emotions quick. What would be your advice?
     
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    I like 24 so much Ive told a girl that I'm jack bauer and shes a suspected terrorist before. :rofl:
     
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    Relationship experience is good to have though. I wouldn't throw it away unless it can't be fixed, but obviously he should keep his options open and be social.
     
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    lol oh snap. clinnggy... stop calling/texting her. but not total ignore. just stop giving her so much attention. hang out with your friends, give her some space
     

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