in which I am in a relationship with a girl who I love and trust fully. Suddenly, I come home and catch her fucking another guy. Once I get to this point of my fantasy I usually get very angry and imagine myself beating both of them 9/10 to death. Then I live my life never trusting anyone else again. Why the fuck do I have this nightmare? Both of my parents cheated on each other at one point, and it followed through with them physically fighting each other. I read a lot of the dating articles in the vaginarium. From what I've learned so far, if you trust a girl she will get bored and move on/cheat. If your too nice/caring to her, she will move on. The reality of dating is that you have to be a cold asshole to women to make them truly fall for you. Is this the way it is? Someone please just point me in the right direction or explain dating/women to me in a realistic manner. On a side question: If you did walk in on your girl cheating, do you have the right to beat the guy up for being a raccoon motherfucker and fucking up someones relationship? And then beat the bitch up for being an unfaithful whore? I would have to, there is no way I couldn't.