I have 2 girls right now

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  1. MudRacer4x4

    MudRacer4x4 New Member

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    I'm dealing with two country type girls. I fall for those types.

    Anyway

    The first girl I'm dealing with is my first real relationship. we were together 2 years. During our relationship we had some really great times but also argued. We broke up a few weeks later she got engaged to some younger kid. she said she liked his farm, family, and she felt more comfortable because I come from money and she doesnt. She also felt bad for the kid cause his mom cheated on his dad. But anyway she broke it off now. the 4 months she was gone I was a wreck I didnt eat, sleep, dropped out of school. She still cared for me, she cheated on the new guy with me and would call me when she was with him. She is beautiful and we bond well and now we both kind of matured and see that we took eachother for granted and didn't handle problems right and argued too much. But we miss each other.

    Now girl number 2 is good looking, lives on an awsome farm I love going there, her family likes me. But she comes off hard to read. I always have to text her or ask her to hang out and lately shes been blowin me off so I got tired of it and text her sayin 'its straight we dont have to hang out I get the hint" an hour later she comments me on myspace trying to be cool. Her friends tell me that she tries to be in charge until you show her you wont put up with it. So my plan is not to text her back see what happens.

    Which girl should I focus on more? Should I forgive my first GF or hope I can get this other girl? Or should I just be fuck buddies with them? I'm confused I'd like the relationship and I HATE BEING SINGLE. I got alot of support from my first gf that I don't get from family and I'm also happier and more motivated when I'm with someone.

    I guess I'm just looking for input, advice, or experience on everything i'm going through.

    Thank you
     
  2. Kinks

    Kinks Sup. OT Supporter

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    my plan would be to never talk to her again and get on with your life.

    or pump and dump. one of the two.

    also, you need to be happy with yourself as a single person before you will ever be in a healthy relationship. otherwise the best you can hope for is being codependent with someone.
     
  3. peoplescar

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    sounds like you're wasting your time on these women. tell the second one to fuck off you're not going to play games with her and don't talk to her again. women are nuts though so maybe she will start talking to you again if you say that.

    dump both of them and move on.
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Doesn't matter what we say, you know you're just gonna do what you want.
     
  5. peoplescar

    peoplescar Guest

    I think you can blanket all of the VAG with that statement... :ugh2:

    delete thread, delete forum
     
  6. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    :werd: First girl is bad news for a shit load of reasons. Second girl is bad news because she's playing games. Then again you sound like bad news too so maybe these women are perfect for you.
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :mamoru: I've read easily 30+ threads from this guy, almost all about the ex. He never listens to anyone, yet still continues asking :dunno:

    And please explain to me how a girl's farm being nice is something to judge who you date :hsugh:
     
  8. peoplescar

    peoplescar Guest

    he gets livestock when they get married... duh
     
  9. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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  10. MudRacer4x4

    MudRacer4x4 New Member

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    she did an hour after I told her:rofl:


    i just like girls into the farming and outdoor stuff.

    And yes I'm not going to lie I fucked up

    I think i'm going to play both of them. fuck it i'll stay single til i get more to go on
     
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  11. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    Issues.

    So she got engaged out of pity?

    Or her comfort zone is families where people cheat?

    I know the answer, ready? It's right here:

    BAM she's a cheater and enjoys cheating in her environment.

    That's a red flag. Next her. Do it now.

    You miss a cheater with all sorts of issues? You better nip that shit in the bud right now.

    Sounds like some game playing drama. Honestly, I'd next her, too.

    Why?

    Because any relationship you have with her is going to be a constant power struggle. If you don't constantly maintain your "dominance" she's going to get bored.

    Trust me, that's going to get fucking old after a few weeks (or months).

    Neither. One is damaged goods because she's attracted to cheating, and the other one is a power game playing nutjob.

    That's woman talk. Women hate being single because they need a guy to "complete them."

    You need to focus on being a man. You invite a women to share your life with you, not BE your life.

    You probably reek of desperation, too. Women HATE that.

    Don't worry, tho, because it's not like either of these women are gf or wife quality, so you're not missing out on anything.
     
  12. peoplescar

    peoplescar Guest

    falconer :bowdown:
     
  13. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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  14. Savage5point0

    Savage5point0 Im an asshole.

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    Im going to say the same thing I have in the past for "two girls what to do" threads. Just keep fucking them both, string them along for as long as you can until it blows up in your face.
     
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    :rofl:
     
  16. Thomas Crenshaw

    Thomas Crenshaw New Member

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    falconer hit the nail on the head, i was in a similar situation...minus the farms...and im starting to get my head on straight. think for you not for them
     
  17. Girder_Shade

    Girder_Shade OT Supporter

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    damn, falconer is the man of wisdom. :bowdown:
     
  18. kungfuwoo

    kungfuwoo New Member

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    Whenever I see falconer I think that he's a small asian guy with glasses that wears a button up short sleeve shirt and jeans that are too big

    I can never take him seriously because of this image I have of him, I don't know why. Probably due to his av.
     
  19. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    You're quite wrong :bowrofl:

    But not my fault if you want to ignore the best advice in the Vag :mamoru:
     
  20. Viper

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    This is a game you aren't going to win.
     
  21. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    :werd:

    I absolutely love the vag.

    OP (sorry, I mean TS): "Hey guys, I'm in this situation where I have the option to do this thing. Do you think I should do it?"
    vag poster 1:"no"
    vag poster 2:"no"
    vag poster 3:"no"
    vag poster 4:"no"
    vag poster 5:"no"
    vag poster 6:"no"
    vag poster 7:"no"
    vag poster 8:"no"
    vag poster 9:"no"
    vag poster 10:"no"
    vag poster 11:"no"
    vag poster 12:"no"
    vag poster 13:"no"
    vag poster 14:"no"
    vag poster 15:"no"
    vag poster 16:"no"
    vag poster 17:"no"
    vag poster 18:"no"
    vag poster 19:"no"
    vag poster 20:"no"
    TS: "I think I'm gonna do it."

    Seriously tho, it will be a good learning experience (hopefully) :bigthumb:
     
  22. Viper

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  23. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    try girl #3
     
  24. CrackityJones

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  25. XxvODvxX

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    I say HANDjala or PALMela... just my 2cents...
     

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