I hate it when...

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by ProneToEpisodes, Mar 13, 2006.

  1. ProneToEpisodes

    ProneToEpisodes New Member

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    Girls are on good behavior in the begining of a relationship and then when they get married they change :hs: . I'd like to think I would be the same person I was before, after all thats why we were getting married to one another. Many of my friends who get married change drastically, not allowing porn in the house, not letting their husband go out with his friends or getting angry when he did, gaining alot of weight and quitting the gym because they are "married now and dont have to go" yes my sister-in-law said those exact words. Girls cutting off all of their friends because they are "single and act stupid" even though they acted the same way before the wedding. :mad:

    Im not hating on girls since I am one. Im just bothered that girls do that and guys you can only blame yourself. I have had guys tell me "You cant act crazy like that until youre married and you cant change things until their is a ring on both of your fingers".



    Discuss.... :o
     
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    See my thread below.

    Men marry women, hoping they will never change.

    Women marry men with the intent to change them.
     
  3. Cerridwen

    Cerridwen Guest

    I think this is pretty much true with a lot of women.
    I personally believe change is inevitable in any person. You will never stay the same ;)
     
  4. ProneToEpisodes

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    I read it and I hate it... Just doesnt make sense to me. Women need to realize marriage will NOT change a man, they need to take him for who he is now or realize that hes not for them before they take the next step. Women need to be ok with themselves and not change their behavior because they are trying to trick a guy into marrying them. :hs:
     
  5. ProneToEpisodes

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    Some change but not drastic changes like cutting your friends or making him cut his.
     
  6. Cerridwen

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    I never said drastic change like that is acceptable. It's well within my own opinion that everything needs to be discussed BEFORE marriage, which not too many couples seem to do anymore.

    I also think people do honestly change a bit when they get married. One of your complaints was of women not wanting to associate with their single friends anymore after marriage (has this happened to you?). IMO a woman's interests change from being focused on herself to being focused on her new marriage and husband. People's interests DO change. Things that I may have found interesting before marriage (talking about other guys etc) don't interest me at all now.

    I also think society almost expects women (and men) to change after marriage.
     

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