I has two dates

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  1. Falconer

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    Weekend = going to a concert with this chick

    Monday = having dinner with another chick

    :wiggle:
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Ohhh shit....details?
     
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    Tuesday = Make thread about what could have possibly gone wrong and why they won't return your phone calls




















    Just joking man... good job.
     
  4. Falconer

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    :rofl:
     
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    For reals tho I feel weird. I'm not used to first dates. I've pretty much always had a gf. I've had 4 first dates, and 3 of them turned into LTRs. The 4th one I wasn't really interested in but she wanted to be LTR, too.

    I'm a little nervous :noes:

    But at the same time I kinda don't care :dunno:
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

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    Concert dates are the best.
     
  7. Falconer

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    I'm actually kind of expecting the Monday chick to flake, but I don't really care.
     
  8. Falconer

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    Any tips? I've only gone to concerts with friends or LTRs before.

    I'm usually too busy rocking out at a concert to act like an alpha male stud. What do I do?
     
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    You should have set them up for the same night, at the same place.

    Cue sitcom hilarity.
     
  11. iwishyouwerebeer

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    Well when I've been I just like a guy who looks like he's having fun. Keep in mind when I'm at concerts (if no seats) I like to be front and center. This is always a really easy oppurtunity for you to touch her. Whether it's an arm around her waist or whatever, it's easy and not considered creepy usually when you are surrounded in a crowd of people jamming out to some music. If you are in seats then you can still put an arm around the back of her seat.

    The fun thing about concert dates is they aren't very awkward, especially for a first date. They are memorable. You don't have to force tak the whole time and then right after you guys will most likely be buzzed with excitment and have the concert to talk about.

    :rofl: One of my first dates with my current SO was at a concert and he made a real ass of himself, but we still had a blast singing out all the lyrics to the songs.
     
  12. Falconer

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    Don't have any pics. Both are 7s. Both are brunette :bigthumb:
     
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    :h5: I am a fan of hot women
     
  14. Falconer

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    I'm gonna be hungry. Is dinner on the way to the concert a good idea? That seems like overkill for a fun first date.
     
  15. Falconer

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    edit n/m misread your post. I thought you said "I am NOT a fan of hot women" and I was like "wait, what? I'm not sure if that was an insult or not."
     
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    Get yourself dinner, then go forth and retrieve the babe.
     
  17. iwishyouwerebeer

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    Is she going to pay for it herself? If so then bypass food.
     
  18. ware_ru

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    yeah boy. jerk off nearly to finish right before the date but don't finish. go in with killer instinct. claw of destiny.
     
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    I had a concert first date with the guy I was seeing. We had seats. We drank in the parking lot first :rofl: and then just hung out at our seats most of the time. He totally tried to stick his tounge down my throat which was weird because I hate PDA's. It was fun though.

    It was more of a mellowish pop 80's band though...good to talk over and just chill.
     
  20. Falconer

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    Then if we hook up I'll be a 10 second superstar :rofl:
     
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    this is falconer we're talking about here, of course she'll be paying for it herself :mamoru:
     
  23. Falconer

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    There's a chance my ex will be at the concert, and I really don't want to see her because she's completely psycho and would probably do something retarded and make a scene. Ok, so this concert is sold out, and has been for a while. My ex txted me the other night just to tell me she *might* be at the concert, even tho I know she didn't have tickets prior to the other night.

    It's a relatively small venue so I WILL run into her if she's there.

    Any tips for handling a psycho ex when you're with a new chick? It will be social validation for me because my ex is absolutely gorgeous (ie. chick finds out I used to date a 10 = DHV (sorry for PUA terms)), but I mean how to deal with the drama.

    Do I just say "uh, yeah, that crazy chick is my ex?" if she asks me "how do you know that crazy chick?"


    edit - so hypothetically speaking, I could see my ex coming up to me and the new girl and saying "eww, this is who you're with?" My ex is incredibly insecure and spiteful like that. Now of course, the new girl is very pretty, but objectively speaking, she's not a 10, so objectively my ex would be correct in assuming she is better looking. But that doesn't change the fact that she's a psycho and I don't want to run into her at all.
     
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  24. lauren

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    play it up. you have a hot ass chick after your balls. your date will be 'hell, he's a fucking catch. mmmmm. sexy.'


    brush her off like you get that sort of attention all the time. she's nothing new. 'sorry hun, i just cant seem to shake'em' style. i would not mention her being a significant ex. someone you casually dated should suffice.

    or, you can get in a tiff with her. personally, i'd go with the former.

    oh and in regards to your ex confronting and going eww: 'yeh, did you know she....... (enter awesome activity here, preferably something your ex lacked in)'? it will bump your dates ego, while diffusing the ex. such a turn on.

    oh, and i would only get food beforehand if you know for sure your ex will be there. otherwise, i would gauge how things are going, and perhaps wafflehouse-it afterwards for pie and coffee. basically, your ex (if you play it right, any fumbles she'll look at in a whole 'nother light) will act as social proof during the concert, and will at worst diffuse and at best intensify anything you did at dinner. win win.

    pretty sure that's enough editing.
     
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    What she said..
     

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