(I'm drunk) So, tonight I went to a concert at a bar with some of my brothers older friends. Of course, being me, I had two strange things happen to me. Now, I don't deny that either of them are my fault. In fact, I think that they both are my fault. I am starting this thread to get input from you guys as to: 1. Whose fault it was? 2. What I could of done differently? So I guess I better get to the "things" that happened to me. Well, like I said earlier, I went to a concert with some of my older brothers friends...not MY friends. We went to a bar that was hosting a concert by a fairly large band. During the show I got really drunk (and still am)...well, here's what happened: 1. I decided that standing in the back sucked. As such, I decided that I wanted to be front row and center (even thought I didn't care for the band), so I went ahead and started to move my way in front of people so that I can get to the front row. As I approached the front, I eventually go the a point where people really wouldn't let me through anymore. So, I decided to just stand right where I was. This kind of backfired because one guy tapped me on the shoulder and screamed into my ear, "get the fuck out of my way or else I'm gonna jack you in the face!" Wow, I was so drunk that I just froze because I didn't want a fight. So my reply to him was a simple, "What!?", to which he replied, "MOVE!!". After his second comment, I just backed off and moved out of his way. Now, I understand that this was my fault since I drunkenly decided to just cut in front of a lot of people. But, I can't help feel like the guy made a total "bitch" out of me. I mean, he just totally got in my face and spoke to me in an extremely demeaning way and I just took it from him. As soon as the confrontation was over, I immediately got PISSED off and wanted to beat the shit out of someone because I was angry at myself for how I handled the situation. Please voice your opinions on this. I would like to know who was at fault here and how I should pf handled the situation differently. (should I have just not cut and made my way up front?) Ok, now on to number 2. 2. So, at the end of my night I started talking to a woman. I got her name and situation. Me and her were both pretty drunk while talking. Now, I got the bright idea to just go ahead and tell her that I'm a firefighter (which I'm not). This seemed to pick her interest a little. She guessed my age and said 24, to which I drunkenly replied "yes" (i'm actually 21). I ended up getting her number, her age, and she mentioned that she has a 12 year old kid at home. She is 31 years old and fairly attractive. I really don't have any interest in her beyond some sex. She has a kid and is 10 years older than me so NO THANK YOU. Should I call her up and tell her the truth about myself? Or, should I call her and arrange a place to meet her and just break the news to her at that point? I am pretty sure that she MAY have a hint that I was full of shit, but I don't know for certain. If she doesn't want anything more out of me than sex than I don't see why I should feel bad about what I told her (I will admit the truth though if you guys tell me to). I really don't know how to handle this situation. Once again, please give me some input and tell me your opinoins on how I should proceed.