I grew up...

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  1. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    In the past year, I've cheated on her with 9 girls. Some were extended relationships, some were just a few times or once. I've cheated on every girlfriend I've had for over 10 years since I started dating/having sex in '98. I had it perfected down to a tee. During my ten year career, I only got caught twice and both of those were when I was under 16. My game was flawless.

    A few weeks ago, I cut off all contact with my last fuckbuddy and focused on the gf. I've never been happier in a relationship. I thought getting my dick wet on a daily basis by every hot girl that wanted it was happiness. It wasn't. It was fun, but stressful and never fufilling. It was an ego boost, but emotionally and mentally draining. The lying, the secrets, the stress, and the pressure took a huge toll on me. I had become heartless. I had a fantastic girl that plenty of dudes would kill for all to myself, completely devoted and in love with me and I didn't even flinch at the thought of hurting her. I didn't care. Then, I realized it.

    Nothing comes close to the feeling of giving one person all your heart and having them give you their's in return. It's everything anyone could want and need. It's everything cheating isn't.

    I learned a lot from the last 10 years, met a lot of great girls, and made a lot of great memories. I wouldn't change a thing if I could repeat everything.
     
  2. antihero

    antihero OT Supporter

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    That took you 10 years to realize? oh well, i guess better late then never.
     
  3. blackrat

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    Hope the fact that you were so detached wasn't the big reason for her to be sticking around. She may get bored now that she has you. ;)
     
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  5. chica&buddies

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    :) I'm glad you came to this realization, and I hope it works out for you.
     
  7. roddick

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    Eh, if it was still the infatuation period and he posted this, then yea I would agree. But it has at least been a year or more that he has had this gf and to finally have this feeling for someone that isnt the initial infatuation bullshit is a great thing to have. I hope you succeed in what you are trying to do. :bigthumb:
     
  8. Lindsay Loham

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    not true whatsoever. people can learn from their experiences, and change for the better.
     
  9. chica&buddies

    chica&buddies Active Member

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    agreed. :)
     
  10. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    In for the wedding
     
  11. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    Does she know?
     
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    In for past fuck buddies being there. :rofl::rofl:
     
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    Wow, suprising.
     
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    I don't think there is a single person out there that would stay around after their partner admitted that they have been having affairs throughout their entire relationship, with 9 women.
     
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  16. fray

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    even in this "amazing revelation" you still come off as a narcissistic prick.
     
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    Its because he is doing it for himself instead of for his gf.
     
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    Oh yeah. The obvious "look what I did, I'm so great" still comes through strongly.
     
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    Its because he views it as an accomplishment at how many he has cheated on and cheated with. I don't believe he won't go back to cheating. He'll forget the stress he had with it and will go back to it once he gets bored because he doesn't respect her and he isn't doing it for the both of them, just purely himself.
     
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    I disagree here. I always thought MCohen's posts were so ego-inflated that even my best friend (huge ego) looked normal compared to him. I think here is more of just a summary of what he did over the past 10 years. How much truth actually exists in it none of us know, but either way I'm glad he's had a revelation. Congrats.
     
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    Good for you buddy, welcome to the search for the higher pleasures as a great philosopher has said. The lower ones aren't as enjoyable as you have just discovered.
     
  22. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    You would be surprised.

    Plus, not being honest with her is not growing up in my opinion.

    Unless he has told her them he hasn't grown as a person at all
     
  23. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    Hopefully it lasts :dunno: but grats if it actually does I guess? time will tell I suppose :)
     
  25. MarshyTheKid

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    I dunno. Imo, someone that would stay after that would have to have some issues. If my SO came to me like that, her stuff would be on the curb within an hour, doesn't matter how serious or far along our relationship was.
     

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