i've been back and forth with this girl for over a year now, occasionally we'd fight and she'd always come back with an I miss you, but we were never in a relationship. It started with her chasing me and when i finally was like Yeah i'm into you that's when things started to get off/on. We get a long great, finish each other sentences (lame i know), are attracted to each other, and she spends a lot of time with me. Well as of late things have been going really well, and finally she's like "im all yours" and we're in a relationship. two days later it's I can't do this, i don't want to be your Ex EVER, and i just can't have another ex in my life. I really love being with you and i think you're a great person but i think it's because we're such great friends... i'm like "i can't be your friend, i'm sorry. I care for you too much" and left it at that. I haven't heard from her since and this was friday.. basically i'm really fucked up right now, all i want to do is sleep, and when i sleep i dream of her. I'm doing my best to be a man about all of this, but fuck.. it fucking hurts a LOT. She's still not divorced from her ex after almost a year and a half of not seeing him and he lives in another state. I'm fairly certain you're all going to tell me to walk away, she's damaged goods and fucked up. but it's just not that easy, i can't see how someone could feel this way, then all the sudden be like i can't do it.