I finally TRULY Understand Why You Date!

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  1. KiddX

    KiddX Tigth as Piston In Ferrari Engine!

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    Jesus people, what an Epiphany I have had today! I went out with a few different girls this month, some were fun and one was terrible. I fully understand now the purpose of dating! Not only is it (potentially) a very enjoyable evening for all parties involved, but it helps me see what I want and do not want in a partner.
    Certain qualities that I find are a must, such as intelligence. In fact, I surprised myself when I realized that the ability engage in an intelligent conversation is VERY important to me. I would venture to say that it is more important that appearance. This is not to say that my ideal woman is not beautiful, because I also realize that the relationship needs Physical as well as Intellectual attraction. In retrospect, I have been a bit of a naive horndog. I feel so happy to be alive right now, life is awesome.

    Cliffs: Dating FTW :bowdown:, Growing Up FTW as well
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Have you fucked any of them?
     
  3. KiddX

    KiddX Tigth as Piston In Ferrari Engine!

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    Nah, Some fondling in a hot tub with one. Another thing i have learned is that i need a girl who is open minded sexually. During conversation, all 4 of these ones were against oral :rofl:. Really, wtf? I am assuming the more i date and the more girls i sleep with, i will also discover qualities in the bedroom that i like/dislike/require, no?
     
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    KiddX Tigth as Piston In Ferrari Engine!

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    im a late bloomer :rofl:
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    you'll find there are lots of different things you like :bigthumb:
     
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    KiddX Tigth as Piston In Ferrari Engine!

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    I have never really been able to be optimistic about my future, with women or a career or anything really. Now i know what i want to do and because of them i am finding a confidence in myself that i didn't know was there, and it is effecting every facet of my life. I have never really been noticed by women, and now that it has changed, life is alot more exciting :hyper:

    Edit: reading the Vaginarium has helped me alot in realizing how much of a looser i was.
     
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    and what did you think it was before this spiritual enlightenment?
     
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    KiddX Tigth as Piston In Ferrari Engine!

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    ask out girl you like --> date a few times --> commitment

    I never knew you could shop around. This whole time i should have been fishing, casting in a general direction and taking nibbles. I have been more of a Spear fisherman, "I want that one *blam*".
     
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    Im still spear fishing.
     
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    Shop around eh? :hsugh:
     
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    how old are you?
     
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    KiddX Tigth as Piston In Ferrari Engine!

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    24 in august :o
     
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    wow..............i thought people realized this at like age 12...
     
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    congrats. wecome to the third rock from the sun.
     
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    from my experience and especially on a first date asking them if they will suck you off will always be a no. Women like to stay classy and act as if they have power. If they just said yes then you'd think they were a slut and throw them away. Get to know them better and I'm sure at least one of them would do oral.
     
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    I'm glad you are beginning to realize this.
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    If you ask a girl point blank to do something that she wants to do anyway you still risk activating her anti-slut defense. Better just to "let things happen", which is how you bypass asd.
     
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    Dreams2Reality saywhat

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    The guys saying thanks, stop being douchebags.


    Congrats man, and good luck.
     
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    Alcohol is also something that bypasses this or temp. lowers the defence....:bigthumb:
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    cheater :squint:
     
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    Dating is fun, but I wonder how long it'll be before I want a relationship.

    All my friends love settling down with girlfriends. Freshman year is over in two weeks.. college is too fun to settle down :hs:
     
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    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    any woman against oral is not a potential girlfriend
     
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    i swear chicks that dont give head should be cunt punched and not allowed to date.
     
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    and on a side note, chicks that dont swallow should be full nelsoned with a scorpion death drop to finish them off
     
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    until you find 2 and you're really into both of them and dont know wtf to do :o :o :hs:
     

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