SRS I finally did it v.Said goodbye to someone I love

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  1. LancerV

    LancerV Something Happened OT Supporter

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    Im sure as some of you may remember I was head over heels for this one girl, yes I loved her but she always said something like "Oh I've been hurt too many times"

    Well tonight I finally said I cant take half a heart and said goodbye, than her real side comes out. I tell her that since she has trust issues maybe she should go talk to someone, and than she tells me that I was trying to make her belevie something that she didnt belevie in, I was :ugh: I said goodbye so it wouldnt be like that.

    Needless to say every time I did this before I would be depressed as hell, cry, think of killing my self, now I just dont care, theres better fish in the water out there. But I learned an important lesson, dont go after victims, as they always try and play the whole you're attacking me thing. So after almost a year of wasting my time on some girl who didnt give a ratass about me I finally said goodbye, and man I feel like Im ontop of the world :eek4: :bigthumb:
     
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    LancerV Something Happened OT Supporter

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    I feel great now, this medicine is really starting to help :eek4: :bigthumb:
     
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    I agree, except she was hardly a victim. She merely played the victim, because it gave her power over you. In actuality, she would be the abuser
     
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    that's retarded. yes, there are many people out there for you. keep lookin
     
  5. LancerV

    LancerV Something Happened OT Supporter

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    Thats what I mean, dont go after people who are always playing the victim.
     
  6. DiggityDogg

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    LancerV, it isn't just the medicine that's helping you. I told you all along that once you take control of the situation and take control of your life, then you will feel better. It feels good to be a man with a backbone doesn't it? Congrats on finally taking control.
     
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    LancerV Something Happened OT Supporter

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    Yep, I feel like a man now :cool:; but I think the medicine has gotten rid of my some of my depression and anxiety so I will make a change instead of waiting for a change.
     
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    Goodluck man, seems like things are looking up for you :)
     

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