LGBT I Finally Came Out!!

Discussion in 'Lifestyle' started by Lilghettothugx, Feb 14, 2008.

  1. Lilghettothugx

    Lilghettothugx New Member

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    Me and my buddy were just sitting around playing Guitar Hero 3 and I got him talking about his deepest secrets and after about 2 hours or so, I finally came out and told him I was bisexual. He didn't seem to care at all. He said it threw him for a loop for a few minutes but he said he didn't mind at all. We are best friends and I can share anything with him.

    I'm so much happier and I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. Whew....

    What a great night :bigthumb:
     
  2. Bib-Lettuce

    Bib-Lettuce New Member

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    Congratulation's :bigthumb: Sometimes it's hard to know how much pressure you're actually under until it's gone.
     
  3. ManyHamsters

    ManyHamsters There are necessary pursuits... but poetry, beauty

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  4. ROFLCORE

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    Well, are you actually 'bi' or is that just a cop-out and you really actually want the same sex WAY more?
     
  5. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    Good for you, man!

    Glad you were honest with your friend...

    Honesty with the ones you love (friends/family) will always lead to releif and positive energy in your life.
     
  6. stubby77

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    CONGRATULATIONS! It's a big step and a HUGE RELIEF!
     
  7. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    ...wow, what a wonderful way to start such a happy day. That is great news; congratulations!
     
  8. Lilghettothugx

    Lilghettothugx New Member

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    wat

    Are you asking me if saying I'm bi is just an excuse and that in reality I'm full blown homosexual?

    Because if you are, then No. I am attracted to both men and women.
     
  9. ROFLCORE

    ROFLCORE Guest

    Yes.
     
  10. Lilghettothugx

    Lilghettothugx New Member

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    Gotcha ;)

    But no, I am attracted to both at this point in my life.

    But, just sitting here thinking about how my friend knows now is killing me. Like I'm so glad he knows, but then again I'm afraid he's going to make it wierd.

    As in, we don't hang out as much, we don't do the same stuff we used to, shit like that.

    Plus...he knows...haha

    But he did tell me a secret about his life that I looked at him about in disbelief for a few minutes. And I'm afraid of him knowing I like men....psshhh
     
  11. Lilghettothugx

    Lilghettothugx New Member

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  12. ManyHamsters

    ManyHamsters There are necessary pursuits... but poetry, beauty

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    it might be weird for a little while (2 weeks was my personal experience), but the friendship will come out stronger in the long run for it :)

    and yay, grats IP!
     
  13. ROFLCORE

    ROFLCORE Guest

    Do you want to get with your friend?

    :hs:
     
  14. RedGoober4Life

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    now do him in the butt.
     
  15. Lilghettothugx

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    When we were younger I did, but I no longer feel a sexual attraction towards him.

    He even asked me last night.

    He said "Have you ever thought about me that way?" "No...You're like my brother. That'd be like me thinking that way about my bro" "Alright"

    We then kept on talking and he asked if there was anyone I was attracted to and I told him our friend Tyler. And he just said "I don't see how you could find him attractive."

    Hahaha...

    But it's all good though.

    We just went for a walk down at the lake bottom with my dog and my little bro and had fun.
     
  16. RedGoober4Life

    RedGoober4Life New Member

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    What is the lake bottom?
     
  17. Lilghettothugx

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    Where the lake has dried up enough so you can see the lake bottom.
     
  18. RedGoober4Life

    RedGoober4Life New Member

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    :( that's sad.
     
  19. RX Bandit

    RX Bandit Sell You Beautiful »

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    Judging by the user name you are 16 years old, skinny and white? Hello :kdubb:

    Either way congrats
     
  20. Kitler

    Kitler Fabulously Gay

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    Omg I would jump on that like white on rice.:naughty:
     
  21. Lilghettothugx

    Lilghettothugx New Member

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    Nah....This is an old name I used.

    I'm actually 18 (19 in May), 6'0, 270lbs...But yea...I'm white.

    wut?

    [​IMG]
     
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    Wow...now you're an open targe for teh superaides!! no, seriously congrats..
     
  23. RX Bandit

    RX Bandit Sell You Beautiful »

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    :kdubb:

    The first time in a week I log on AIM and you are not there. :squint:
     
  24. Elusid

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    Yeah isn't it awesome coming out to one of your trusted male friends and them being totally chill with it? I did that with one of my really close friends except then I went on to tell him I liked him later on but I told him a few days too late because he went and saw his ex-gf and got all interested in women again and blah blah blah. He's still totally chill with it, kick ass friend. To make a long story short he's bi, was interested in women, got dumped, and I might have a shot at him now ;)
     
  25. Matitulo

    Matitulo If sexy never left then why is everybody on my shi

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    you got a sub
     

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