I feel stupid.

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  1. Skittah

    Skittah oh no

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    I'm sitting here watching Brave Heart while my boyfriend is watching porn with two other guys...

    :hs: I'm trying not to be a bitch to him and i feel really dumb. I feel useless and inadequate...

    Maybe my women voice needs to shut up.
     
  2. blinknull

    blinknull New Member

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    watching porn with men.... maybe try getting a straight boyfriend.

    :mamoru:
     
  3. Two toys

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    haha.. i think ive only watched funny porn with other dudes and it was never for more than like 10 minutes.. although i dont think its gay to watch porn with other guys, i just dont see the point. getting all aroused and only having a guy around is stupid...


    anyways.. thats beyond the point..

    dont feel like you arent doing your job.. you are. relax its just porn....
     
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    PlutoBHG New Member

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    you shouldnt feel bad, you should be laughing that hes doing that instead of watching it with you...
     
  5. aim2kill

    aim2kill New Member

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    hopefully thats not a common habit of his.
    the bigger question is why he would rather do that than hang out with you or watch it with you.
     
  6. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    :(

    That's too bad. He doesn't want to watch it with you??
     
  7. Falconer

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    Hopefully he's not jerking off with the other guys. They're probably just watching shock value stuff... like "omg! Look at that!" and laughing about it.

    Hopefully.
     
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    I am sure one of the group wants to...:wackit:

    This is the wackiest post I have read in some time, Don't even know where to begin with what is wrong with this picture. But something, I think you need to speak to him as to his choices.
     
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    uwofrost New Denver Crew

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    Go take him in the bedroom and blow him.... then ask if he wants you to finish or if he wants to watch porn still......
     
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    With my first real bf, when I was 15, I felt really, really insecure when he watched porn, I promise you'll get over it :hs:
     
  12. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    this scares the living crap out of me.

    how can there exist women who are so out of touch with the male psyche????

    how is it I never run into these crazy people?

    i guess i don't have to worry about it because i never do. but just the fact that they exist :hsugh:
     
  13. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Funny, I have a video of a nude massage.

    In my porn collection.

    I wonder if it's her.
     
  14. demosnat

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    She's insecure about her body and seeking validation for it :dunno: she was getting validation from teh nude thing, and him looking at other naked chicks detracts from validation.
     
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    Uh.. that is a little fucked up.
     
  16. demosnat

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    By the by, your AV is so fucking cute I may kill someone.
    If he's watching it with his buddies, its probably NOT to get off, its a weird fucking male bonding thing.
     
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    seriously, I just keep looking at it. freaking adorable.
     
  18. meervincent

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    i never liked watching sexy porn with friends. you know what i mean, porn you'd usually jerk it to. if im gonna watch porn with friends its stuff like 2girls1cup or some huge bitch gettin railed. something im gonna laugh at and be able to laugh at there reactions. my friends and i would come home at like 3 in the orning and his dad would just be sittin there watching really bad porn laughin at it. we had a game based around who saw the boob job scar first
     
  19. Falconer

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    [insecure]

    i think i'd be bothered if my SO used to do nude massages... especially for the sake of making money.

    [/insecure]
     
  20. JohnJohnJohnson

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    le sigh

    why is that?
     
  21. squid

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    I volunteer at a shelter and we had a cat that would do that whenever you looked at it. I called him Tilt.
     
  22. yankeeschick14

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    oh yah youre talking about AKs right? hers is cute too, but i was talking about ninja's. Bunnies have a special place in my heart right now--just got myself a new baby :love:
     
  23. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    It would cheapen my opinion of her view of sex.

    I'm oldschool and think sex is something that should happen between two people who care about each other. Using your sexuality to make money makes it less meaningful when you use it with your SO.

    I wouldn't want to think "oh, my gf is giving me a naked massage. But I know that if she didn't love me, I could pay her for the same treatment."

    IMO.

    IBflames

    edit - I'm almost positive this comes from a place of insecurity. However, at the same time I'm not hypocritical about this with my behavior.
     
  24. KindlyCuddly

    KindlyCuddly Irina Lazareanu

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    A friend of mine did a brief stint in sex work because she REALLY REALLY LOVED SEX so how much different could it be?

    Very different apparently. :hs:
     
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    so sweet :love:
     

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