I feel so crushed and confused...

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  1. forgotmyname

    forgotmyname Active Member

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    Last saturday, I went out with this girl I knew from work. We hit it off pretty good. We went to see a movie, she seemed interested on me, and I sealed it with a kiss.

    Now she won't return my calls.
     
  2. rnikec

    rnikec JINGMAO

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    maybe your putting yourself as an overobsessive guy by calling her repeatedly. Let her call you?
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Is this the same girl you always talk about...or another girl that you work with? If it's the one you always mention, doesn't she have a boyfriend?
     
  4. forgotmyname

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    No boyfriend. This one is a different girl. I messaged her to go out, and she agreed. We went out, and had a good time. In the end, I asked her to give her a kiss and she accepted.

    I let one day pass, and I called her twice but no answer (First call in the afternoon, and the second one just a few minutes ago). I sent her a message.

    Oh well, this sure sucks because I did everything right and it still came out wrong (so far).

    Patience perhaps? But patience for what?
     
  5. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Stop calling/texting here. That's all there is to say. There could be a million reasons why she's not responding, but you need to stop caring and worrying.

    /thread
     
  6. forgotmyname

    forgotmyname Active Member

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    I guess so. I mean, I have no other choice. Anything else, is going to make myself look like an idiot.
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Pretty much. You've already done more than your part. Ignore her at work. Why do you only go for girls you work with BTW? Because you don't like to go out and meet other women?
     
  8. jonno

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    what's with all the work drama lately :o :o :o
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rofl: Some people just have to learn the hard way :p
     
  10. forgotmyname

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    She used to work in the same store I did. I rarely knew her in my previous job. It was just a casual talk and I got her number. Several months after, I message her to go out and she agreeds. Now this happens.

    Oh and may I ask what's the right way to do things?

    On another note, I really do have to shut up about things I do. I told some co-worker about the wonderful date I had with the girl and she was already saying how great of a couple we made. It's not the first time it happens. I mean, rambling about stuff that hasn't happened yet, even though we kissed.
     
  11. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Well I don't think you necessarily did anything wrong, I mean we weren't on the date so we have no idea how it really went down or how this chick feels. But it's pretty damn common for a girl not to answer, even if she DID like you.

    And yes, don't be a 15 year old girl who talks about his dates all over the office, especially if you fucking work with those women! Don't get too emotional about things such as on date, one kiss, one phone number. Stay cool.
     
  12. forgotmyname

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    Well, two phone messages, one saying to call me when she gets the chance, and the second one to ask if everything was alright plus a myspace message saying the same. I guess I am done with everything right it can be done.

    Oh and I really do hate it but I do get emotional about things like that. It was going so good, but for some reason I sort of have like a sixth sense for this type of crap.
     
  13. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    A sixth sense? If you had a sixth sense you would've known she wouldn't answer the phone and would've known that one phone call and one message is enough.
     
  14. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    my personal rule number 1.

    never leave a message on a girls phone if you have not had sex with her.

    edit More than once
     
  15. forgotmyname

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    I hope that extra call didn't screw things up.

    The worst thing is that the first thought that came to my mind when I woke up was the realization of my crappy state of mind. :squint:

    Maybe it is that I get too attached or something else. That cooling thing, I need to have it.
     
  16. ware_ru

    ware_ru I know, I know, I'm amazing

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    are you fucking 12 years old? "I asked her to give her a kiss and she accepted." wtffffffffff? dude learn to become the man you want to be. wow
     
  17. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    lol no shit.... calling more than once every other day before you have had sex is always a bad idea.
     
  18. forgotmyname

    forgotmyname Active Member

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    I don't know what man you are talking about.
     
  19. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    he means you never ask for a kiss, that isnt respected by any woman anywhere ever.
     
  20. MattThom01

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    and your age is?

    Have some tact, learn to sound a little more sophisticated than a drunken frat boy.

    On the positive side, nice to see something different from you than "read all my posts".
     
  21. forgotmyname

    forgotmyname Active Member

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    You coulnd't be anymore wrong.
     
  22. MattThom01

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    just do what works for you.

    Who cares how he got the kiss, as long as he got it, right?
     
  23. ware_ru

    ware_ru I know, I know, I'm amazing

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    my jaw literally just dropped. every single post of yours in this forum is "i'm a chode . i don't know how to get girls. man i suck. man i suck with girls." and you think you have ANY idea what you're doing with girls? dude lose the fucking ego and learn that it's ok not to be good with women, very few men are, and it's totally acceptable to want to learn how to, and to do so. now go do it. wow
     
  24. forgotmyname

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    Pretty much the only thing I want right now, is to get a call back from her. Until, then I just gotta have patience. Two things are going to happen. Either, I get a call from her or I completely move on.
     
  25. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    she wont answer your calls b/c you arent masculine enough; take what is yours. take your kiss. you own it.

    chicks dig that shit
     

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