SRS I feel really stupid because

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  1. untoastytoast

    untoastytoast The Glory Days

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    it seems like i fall in love with any girl who shows the least bit of interest in me. I know i stole that from eternal sunshine, but it's true. :wtc:
     
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    untoastytoast The Glory Days

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    To be absolutely honest, i don't even know if i have been in love or not because i have little to none experience in relationships.
     
  3. kilamasta

    kilamasta New Member

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    It is your inexperience in my opinion. You have no experience, eager to get one, so you get really interested in girls who seems interested.

    Try to keep your head cold about the "fall in love" and I suggest when you get some feelings for a girl, you get in action fast or you'll never go foward.
     
  4. illmaceyougood

    illmaceyougood New Member

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    Girls are not special. There's billions of them. Maybe to you it's incredibly special when one is interested in you, but they're not.
     
  5. Coottie

    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    Wait...so you fall in love with any girl that shows the slightest bit of interest in you but then you turn around and say you don't think you've ever been in love and that you have very little experience in relationships.

    Seems obvious to me that you have not been in love. Lust?? Perhaps Like?? Sure Infatuated??? MOst definatly....but love...doesn't sound like it.

    So, next time you find a girl that shows interest in you ask her out. If you enjoyed the date then ask her out again....if you continue to enjoy the dates, keep asking her out. If not or if you don't like being around her, stop asking her out or talk to her about it. What's soo difficult about this?
     
  6. PuppyCat

    PuppyCat O.T. Mom

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    "Hmm", I think. Some people just wear their hearts on their sleeves, are sensitive, have that certain je ne sais quoi about them that sees warm and fuzzy everywhere, regardless of experience or circumstance. For others, they have to be bulldozed before they will even admit a tadly they are love.

    However, that being said, I just think you are the age when X comes along, bats the eyelashes, (maybe even holds your hand or touches your arm) and it's ZING!!!

    And that's okay. You'll grow out of it. You may feel X and X are interested in you and might privately drool over them, but, as you get older, you get choosier about whom to give your heart to.

    You aren't stupid by any means.

    Please keep in mind Cupid does not have a timetable.

    :)Smile

    Translation: "je ne sais quoi" = that certain undefinable something
     
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    XPX New Member

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    is it possible to completely NOT have that je ne sais quoi?
    I hate not having that "yo no se que" quality that some people have....I'm just not charming enough and people are usually frightened to talk to me :hs:
     
  8. Crankshaft

    Crankshaft I love Cheetos motherfucker

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    I'm in the same boat :hs:
     
  9. PuppyCat

    PuppyCat O.T. Mom

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    Why do you think you are not charming enough to talk with and why do you state that people are afraid to talk with you. Substantiate that please.

    :)Smile
     
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    I have a healthy number of friends yet I'm not the most popular one, you know what I mean, the one that ppl hug and get intimate with...I know they love and yadda yadda yadda but....it's not the same. I always try to call them just to say hi and I'm kind to them...I'm known as the person that gets out of my house at 1am to replace a flat tire on my friends car....or to get them stuff from the drugstore if they are really sick...but that's it. I can't complain though, I'm grateful I have them... :o
     
  11. SouLchild

    SouLchild DIME PIECE GREASE OT Supporter

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    There is no true love, puppy love, or even unconditional love.

    it's just a word to categorize affection for someone. Just like "STD". Just a word to categorize the many diseases caused by or relations to sex.

    There are many degrees of affection and they are all love. It's not a step like how First-Base is to Kissing.
     
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    PuppyCat O.T. Mom

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    I totally disagree with your statement about love, however, I will respect it.
     
  13. Pioneer

    Pioneer Are you annoyed? You will be.

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    I totally agree with your disagreement.

    Those that say "there is no love" have never experienced love



    I know there is true love because I met that 'one'. It took some time to realize it but I loved her from the moment I saw her and it IS unconditional ... She's married now but, if she were to come back (moved 4 years ago), I wouldn't hesitate to tell her, once again, "I love you"


    My nights, for the past 4 years, are like a lifetime. The chest pains I have are nearly constant as so much reminds me of her.

    If you can move on/let go then it was not love.
     

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