I feel like shit.Just made out with the ex

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  1. boostedscooby

    boostedscooby no blue icon no care

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    Im dating some one new and My ex who broke off a month ago calls me and tells me that she misses me and loves me ( basic lies) .So I meet her and we start talking about what went wrong with our relationship. Then she tell me she wants to get back together . I have the balls to tell her that am seeing someone new . The next thing I tell her is that we can still be friends and end up kissing.


    am so confused . :wtc:
     
  2. emanuel

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    that's where you went wrong.
     
  3. BlindSyde

    BlindSyde New Member

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    Yup.
     
  4. Cerridwen

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    You should feel like shit.
    You just cheated on your new girlfriend (if you think that's not cheating, ask her and see what she says ;) )
    Are you planning on telling her?
     
  5. BlindSyde

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    :werd:


    IBpeoplecomeinsayingitsNOTcheating :hsugh:
     
  6. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    I had a nightmare that my ex-hookup buddy put her breasts in my face and I began sucking on them. It was a nightmare because the whole time I was thinking, "No! I have a gf!" It was fucked up.
     
  7. BlindSyde

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    :eek4: That's fucked up, but if I had a GF, and that was to ACTUALLY happen, I'd tell the bitch to get out, and I'm not cheating on my current/new GF.


    I'm not a cheater, and I can actually think with my head and not my dick. If an EX of mine put moves on me, tits in my face..etc.. She'd get kicked to the curb pretty quick. I don't cheat and even if the chance was there, I'd tell the bitch to :gtfo: Seriously, cheating is weak :hsugh:
     
  8. BlindSyde

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    And yes, a male will the willpower to not cheat exsists. I'd be one of them. I talk shit to my friends that have cheated in the past, and make them feel like lowlifes about it, they eventually come to grips with it being stupid to do.
     
  9. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    This was a dream, not a r/l event, remember. :hsughno:
     
  10. BlindSyde

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    I know, but I'm staying if it was IRL :o :mamoru:


    I'd be pissed at myself for having that kind of dream though.

    Then again, I HATE all my ex girlfriends. Yes hate is a strong word, but to dislike them is NOT an option.
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    If I should get pissed about having a dream like that, how should I feel about dreams where I have hot sex with a family member? About killing a loved one? Seems to me that, since dreams are not my fault, I shouldn't blame myself for them.
     
  12. BlindSyde

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    Okay, good point. You got me there. But still, all my dreams end up me getting killed somehow. Fucked up, but it's the truth.


    So, I don't know how to truely react about a dream. Sorry I came off the wrong way :hsd:
     
  13. AlohaRacing

    AlohaRacing Freak that bitch out

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    what is there to be confused about? You just fucked up anything good that may have come out of your relationship w/ the new girl.
     
  14. BlindSyde

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    I dunno, but my past ex's seem to like "toying" with me if I'm dating somebody knew/in a relationship.

    But, I guess if you're happy in a new relationship, your ex wants to see you NOT happy, and do anything in her power to make it end badly for you.


    Edit: But I dunno if this olds any grounds.
     
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    :hug: np
     
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    you have some fucked up exes?
     
  17. BlindSyde

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    :) I came off wrong, and had to admit I did :o
     
  18. BlindSyde

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    :rofl: Yeah, well I'm 24, most of them were 18 :hsugh:

    I'm really a winnar at picking the mature ones here. NOT!
     
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    Tell the girl what happened and see if she can forgive you. If she can't, you kind of deserve it. If she can, do you have the willpower not to let this happen ever again? Feeling like shit is pretty much what you should be doing right now.
     
  20. BlindSyde

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    But to the threadstarter.

    If you have the balls to tell the new girl about this, I guess from her reaction you know where to go :hsugh:
     
  21. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Uh-oh. Mine's 18. :eek3:
    But I'm 20, so it's not too bad?
     
  22. BlindSyde

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    I'm to the point I want to swear off any girl under 21, but I guess I can look for the "how mature" thing. If they're 18, and come off as really mature, I guess I could date another girl in that age range. I kinda want a girl closer to mine though :hsd:
     
  23. boostedscooby

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    yes we broke up and now am back with the ex but i do not feel the same way i used to feel about her. So am thinking about staying single again.
     
  24. miniml

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    here is my situation:

    i have two exs in my life right now

    1. a month long realtionship that ended 2 years ago, becasue she cheated on me, and left me for the other man
    2. a 1.5 year relationship that ended in october 05, for educational reasons (and because i was being "overwhelming")​

    i talk to them both. i have recently started hanging out with the cheating one. there are moments of very obvious flirting with both of them. i do not know what to do.
     
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  25. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    Stop talking/flirting with them. They are exes for a reason. Continuing to flirt with them will only cause drama.
     

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