I don't understand women

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  1. Skyline019

    Skyline019 Got a question? Ask ylen13!

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    I meet this girl at work, buddy tells me she asked him about me. He doesn't have her number, so I find her on myspace and send her a message. She never responds. One night I see her online and send her a message on a whim, she responds back and we have a nice little conversation on myspace, gives me her number and tells me she's interested in doing something.

    I call her up the next day (i think), we talk for a few minutes and then she had to go, presumably because she was at work. I didn't want to bother her again at work, so I sent her another message on myspace seeing if she was free tomorrow and wanted to do something. She reads the message, but never responds. Last night I send her a text message, we exchange a few and then I go to bed. I call her a little while ago, she doesn't answer.

    :ugh: Talk about mixed fucking messages. I give up, if she's interested, she'll call.
     
  2. MattThom01

    MattThom01 New Member

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    She probably likes talking to you when the mood strikes her, but doesn't like you that much overall.

    Don't worry about it.
     
  3. Reign

    Reign Banned

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    Women take work man, build up the interest. Some of them like a challenge, some like to be put in their place, others like to be walked all over. Just take it slow, figure her out and do what it takes.
     
  4. fray

    fray New Member

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    Plus myspace failed the first time. Why keep going that route?
     
  5. KindlyCuddly

    KindlyCuddly Irina Lazareanu

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    you're rushing things.
     
  6. Ford4Life

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    Ignore her. If she has interest, she will come to you. You are coming on to strong.
     
  7. forgotmyname

    forgotmyname Active Member

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    What's the point of using myspace if she is in front of you?
     
  8. Ideotique

    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    Fucking myspace/facebook/msn/whatever is a waste of time

    You want a woman? Go out and talk to her. Don't piss around messaging her online and stressing when she doesn't respons.
     
  9. JordanClarkson

    JordanClarkson OT Supporter

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    instead of going to bed, you should invite her out to the bar aka alcohol at your place
     
  10. Mopar03

    Mopar03 73-9 OT Supporter

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    quit sending so many messages
     
  11. Viper

    Viper OT Supporter

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    Why don't you try not being so clingy?

    Jesus, you contacted her like 400 times within the space of a few days?

    Ask once, if she doesn't respond...NEXT.

    Ask once, if she gives you an excuse, ask a second time...if that doesn't work out...NEXT.

    There are far too many women out there to waste your time "fighting" to get a first date.
     
  12. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Stop contacting her so damn much, especially over Myspace. Call her in 3 days. If she doesn't answer, forget her. If she does answer don't chit chat, set up a date right then on the phone.
     

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