LGBT I don't really think I'm a 100% bisexual.

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  1. limited_skillz

    limited_skillz I'm a dumbass!

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    I just need to relieve some sexual tension(because I'm socially inept and can't get a girl), and I find a certain type of guys hot. The thing is, I'm only 17 and in high school, and I don't really want it to get out that I'm kinda bisexual or anything.

    How do I go about looking for guys that just want to make out/maybe get a bj from? I have pretty high standards in guys though, it would probably be even harder for me to find a hot guy to make out with than get a girlfriend.

    I'm really new to this type of lifestyle, only a few weeks ago did I accept that I found some guys to be hot. They are mostly emo looking guys, but there's not too many around here. I like that whole skinny, black hair, cute look. How can I tell if a guy is gay/bi without asking? Can someone be my bisexual tutor?
     
  2. Atlas

    Atlas New Member

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    friendfinder.com just say you're 18. you're close enough ;-)
     
  3. jordan04

    jordan04 The seeds of love have taken hold, and if we won't

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    First off, don't try to label yourself too soon. Sexuality is fluid! You should be able to tell if a guy is gay or bi, I'm not saying go for the sereotypes but you should be able to get a vibe. Gaydar is a powerful thing.
     
  4. sholnay

    sholnay New Member

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    congratulations on the huge step you've taken, I wish I could have done it at your age.

    As far as meeting guys, is there a big city near you? If you do some research, you can probably find some 18+ clubs that might cater to your tastes - then again, you'll have to turn 18 first. Other than that and maybe finding someone at school that you know for sure is gay, get online and search, myspace is a great tool.
     
  5. limited_skillz

    limited_skillz I'm a dumbass!

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    I'm only about 3 months from 18, and I live in toronto, I'm pretty sure I could find a bunch of places around here. Thanks for the myspace suggestion, I'll spend a few hours looking around here for guys.

    Is there a good guide to becoming bi, like what issues I will face and how to handle them?
     
  6. boris yeltsin

    boris yeltsin New Member

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    I'm moving to Toronto next year. :dunno:

    Can't get more "emo" looking than me.
     
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    RedGoober4Life New Member

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    Hey, wait, so you're offering to give a bj? :hsugh:
     
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    coma New Member

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    No he says that he wants it from a guy. :hs:
     
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    RedGoober4Life New Member

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    Well what kind of hokey pokey business is he running. :wtc:
     
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    cedric I don't have a contract

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    :rofl: the offer's on the table
     
  11. boris yeltsin

    boris yeltsin New Member

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    :mamoru: Waiting for response.
     
  12. sholnay

    sholnay New Member

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    do eet limited - boris is hot.

    I dont really know if there is a difinitive guide to being bi or gay - you're just gonna have to realize that you're never going to be a part of the "norm" again and some people will undoubtedly give you shit for it. Those people dont need to be in your life though ;)
     
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    limited_skilz, I am in Toronto... if I can be of assistance in anyway in coming to terms with sexuality etc., please PM me and I will be happy to forward you my email or phone number.

    Please note: this is not a pick-up post - just willing to help someone else along their journey.
     
  14. limited_skillz

    limited_skillz I'm a dumbass!

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    lol well to the boris guy, i'm not really the best looking guy either, and I'm not sure you would be into indian guys

    i'm pretty small as well, 5'8" 130, but cute I guess.. anyways I think i'll wait til im 18 to make decisions on these things, I'll be able to go through with plans easier and have more of a stable mindset
     
  15. boris yeltsin

    boris yeltsin New Member

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    O'rly? :run:

    You got any pics? If you want pics of me you can find them in the Picture thread at the top. :o
     
  16. limited_skillz

    limited_skillz I'm a dumbass!

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    I'll get pics in 2 days, need some batteries for my camera and can't go to mall tommorow.. I'll check out ur pics later.

    Damn this is pretty exciting though, it's probably the most wildest thing I've ever thought about doing. Now I know why jailbait girls go after older guys.
     
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    sholnay New Member

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    lol, boris isnt older... hes younger than you in fact.
     
  18. limited_skillz

    limited_skillz I'm a dumbass!

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    lol well younger isn't bad either, still pretty exciting

    i just got through looking at every page of the picture thread, but can't find you boris

    maybe i just missed it, but i'm really lazy to go through it again
     
  19. boris yeltsin

    boris yeltsin New Member

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    :mamoru: I'm not in Toronto yet.

    Here's my myspace if you want pics:

    http://www.myspace.com/borisyeltsin
     
  20. limited_skillz

    limited_skillz I'm a dumbass!

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    Alright, you're pretty damn cute.. where/when are you moving in toronto?
     
  21. boris yeltsin

    boris yeltsin New Member

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    I have no idea, not till next year. :o

    Those pics are somewhat dated though. I'll need to get new ones soon.
     
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    Hey RyRy u sound like y're ready all the time. What are u, a nymph or something? Wanna get w/me and help me decide which I am?
     
  24. boris yeltsin

    boris yeltsin New Member

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    :hs: Deux ans...

    J'ai 17 ans a la Novembre. :run:

    Actually, I'm already legal in Canada. :o
     
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