I just need to relieve some sexual tension(because I'm socially inept and can't get a girl), and I find a certain type of guys hot. The thing is, I'm only 17 and in high school, and I don't really want it to get out that I'm kinda bisexual or anything. How do I go about looking for guys that just want to make out/maybe get a bj from? I have pretty high standards in guys though, it would probably be even harder for me to find a hot guy to make out with than get a girlfriend. I'm really new to this type of lifestyle, only a few weeks ago did I accept that I found some guys to be hot. They are mostly emo looking guys, but there's not too many around here. I like that whole skinny, black hair, cute look. How can I tell if a guy is gay/bi without asking? Can someone be my bisexual tutor?