I started this new job about 2 years ago and ive always made it a point in my life to not get involved with co-workers. This time i messed up. This girl and i hit it off. we started talking as friends , then it started to become more than that. the only problem being is that she has a boyfriend already. but dispite that fact we still kept on. things got even more involved. its hard to keep work and personal things seperate , we`ve kind of had a falling out. i still have very strong feelings for her but i question whether or not they are the same toward me from her. things just arent like they used to be between the 2 of us. it makes me very unhappy going to work everyday knowing that. but i just dont know what else i can do. the question of whether or not i should leave my job is constantly running through my mind. everyday that i go in , i just cant focus. i tell myself that i can forget it and get on with myself, but i catch one glimpse of her and i just fall all over again.