Discussion in 'On Topic' started by orion2034, Jun 20, 2007.
i have nowhere to turn, and no one to talk to and i really hate my life right now
tell me about it. I wake up extremely depressed every single day.
If you don't mind: elaborate. We're all here to help you. The more you give us, the more we can help you. Trust us. I'm sure that someone here has a decent answer for you and might put you at ease. You'll feel better afterwards.
well i guess since i moved out to arizona, i have no friends no life, all i do is work and im not very good at meeting people. guess im just lonely
That happens to all of us. It's a very common feeling. I actually had a 2 week period being home from school completely lost in my own emotion. All of my friends from home were awkward to hang out with. I got so used to my friends at school that I really didn't relate with my friends from high school anymore.
I've slowly picked out the few that really are my close friends and they are the ones I'm sticking with now.
There are a lot of threads on here about loneliness or a lack of friends.
The most important thing to do is to find something that you like to do, and join groups/societies of people that do the same thing. Whether it's a sport, a hobby, a religion, whatever. Just find people with related interests and you'll find a few people that are worthy of being called your friend.
yeah i do need to find some things to get involved with, i also need to start school and when that happens i should start to meet more people
well for now time for sleep
Sleep? You're in arizona... it's like what... 10am? Have you been up all night? Or do you work a night shift?
join a club or something you are interested in...get involved with shit at work unless most of the people are a lot older than you
i do work a night shift but i didnt sleep last night
yeah i should look into something at work maybe there is something i can get involved with
sounds like you have a plan, you just have to wait for it to kick in
waiting sucks, but you'll live
things will click just give it time but you also need to make things happen.
heres what i would do.
go to school and meet people
get into a sport. like mabey car racing or something where you can meet people that have something in common with you.
and as far as dating goes i would try out myspace.
I was like you quite often until I took the "life is what I make it" approach to things.
So, I got off my ass, made an effort to meet people, find hobbies I never knew about, etc.