my dad just passed away yesterday. i'm trying so hard to be strong and there for my mom and younger siblings (2 brothers and a sister) but i just don't feel like i can take care of them the way my dad would want me to. he was such and incredible man that i don't think that i could ever fill one of his shoes let alone both of them. i just feel so lost. my mom and him did everything together. she's taking it pretty hard, and i'm trying to be there but she just seems lost. like she's a zombie and i just don't know what to say or do to try to help her. i guess i'm not really sure why i'm posting this here, but maybe someone has gone through this and has some kind words that might help today was just a really hard day, we had to write an obituary, decide what to do with the body, and pick some music for the funeral. R.I.P. dad, you'll be missed!