I don't fit :wtc:

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  1. Silverwolf90

    Silverwolf90 New Member

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    My gf and I wanted to start having sex. We're both virgins. So last night we tried, for a while i was so nervous i couldn't get it up. Eventually I do and try and stick it in, she's guiding it along. I probably get 1/2 of my head in. And she pulls it out. We try again, it hurts her too much and pulls it out. Third time i get my head in, try and go a little farther and again, the pain is too much for her and she pulls it out. :hs: Then she had to go home.

    She's telling me it feels like I'm ripping her in half.

    What do I do? :hs: Help us out guys.
     
  2. homi

    homi e-cool OT Supporter

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    sounds like u need more foreplay

    try playing with her tits/pussy alot with ur hands, and eat her out... while fingering her or rubbing her clit
     
  3. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    nerves. you're not hard enough, shes not wet enough = skin drag
     
  4. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    the biggest dong you can imagine will fit in there

    she is not relaxed and not lubricated enough
     
  5. Pringles

    Pringles New Member

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    do foreplay till shes just pouring in juices down there. Also make sure shes relaxed like everyone else said so the muscle can relax itself and open for you. Trust me dude your shit works thats how we all are here.
     
  6. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Yail shouldn't over romanticize it.

    To be clear, you could fit an arm inside the bitch.

    Other than that :stupid:
     
  7. HuskiRuski

    HuskiRuski Cardinal Fan

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    finger her and then eat her out for a while to get some lube down there. the muscle will relax and you'll have plenty of room.

    don't worry. you're both virgins so you're both in the same boat.
     
  8. mandarin orange

    mandarin orange OT Supporter

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    finger her. and get her wet. it's all about foreplay.

    she was probably nervous.. so she was 'dry' down there.

    suck on her tits, nibble on them. suck on her neck, collarbone.. do this all while using one hand to rub the outside of her pussy/clit.. this will probably get her wet if you do it passionately. then once she's a little wet.. use one finger.. and if possible.. maybe eventually use two fingers.. this will get her used to having things up there.. and once you get two fingers in.. or even one finger.. try sticking it in when she's wet
     
  9. essejgnad

    essejgnad poopty pangts

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    one finger two finger lick lick lick
     
  10. radfad88

    radfad88 The Batman-O-Lantern

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    Honestly, this happened with me even after all the above was implemented before hand (LOADS of foreplay, very, very wet, very relaxed - it was a guy I was closest to in the world and very comfortable with, etc.).

    I just had to keep trying. Over, and Over, and Over again. It took at least 10 dedicated amounts of time trying before it finally got comfortable enough to go in most/all of the way. And then after that it was still a while before everything was completely comfortable for me during sex. I think some girls are naturally smaller or more resistant down there than others, but it's not something that can't be overcome with patience. Have fun with it... you've only got time :big grin:
     
  11. Ebtromba

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    nudes of you?
     
  12. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rolleyes: Back to the main forum with you!
     
  13. Ebtromba

    Ebtromba Active Member

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    hehehe
     
  14. turndog

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    First thing is first you need to try a third party lube. If that doesn’t work you need to consider trying to force it in, it’s going to hurt her no matter what precautions you take. Unfortunately some people are blessed and cursed at the same time with girth. In this case you need to make sure she is ok with the fact that it’s going to hurt and try to minimize the pain as much as you can with her with for play.
     
  15. Zeldamastr

    Zeldamastr New Member

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    He fits now.


    (Thanks for all the advice)
     
  16. Marmitha

    Marmitha Milk ftw

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    i had the same issue, you will need, lots of lub, lots of foreplay, and lots of fingering (start with one finger, work your way to two, then three then four, then pen0r ftw!). It took me 4 months to get it in after loosening me up a bit, it should be a lot faster than that though.
     

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