I don't fit inside of her.

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  1. R HOP

    R HOP New Member

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    I am have a little problem with myself in a girl sexually. We were all ready for sex and everything, after about a half hour of foreplay or so(maybe more). So I had the condom on and everything but I could not fit my penis in her vagina. I mean we tried for a good 30-40 min. It just wouldn't fit. I even tried workin it in little by little so she wouldn't get hurt. Any suggestions?
     
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    try fingering her, is your gf generally small? 1,2,fingers then try the dick
     
  3. I feel like Ive seen this post before...
     
  4. RockChick

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    yes you do fit inside of her... always remember, thats where babies come from and if you've seen a newborn... well, you get the point.

    anyway, is your girl a virgin or did she have sex before? also does she masturbate?

    when you are going at it next time, make sure she is wet, finger her with 1, 2 or more fingers (whatever she likes) and while fingering her, stretch her vagina a lil bit, don't just go in and out etc.. also when you are trying to get your penis into her vag, push a lil harder... i'm not saying ram it into her but push it a little inside... don't expect it just sliding inside her... especially not if its her first time.
     
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    yeah
    she was wet. I was easily fingering her with 2 fingers, but I did not try to stretch it out. She is not a virgin, at least from what shes told me. It was so frustrating, later she was crying. She thought it was all her fault and I told her that it wasn't and that we would figure this out. I'm not entirly sure where to go next. You think lube would help?
     
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    Try KY Warming Lube. Not only will it help but it will also stimulate her a little which will make her wetter/looser.
     
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    i dunno about lube, i dont have any experience with it. all we need and use is saliva and natural juices.
     
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    a little lube can help. i had a very very tight girlfriend once (i'm not gigantic, like 5.5" and 5" circumference, semi thick) and could barely get it in. we just went reallly really slow, lubed up, use some pressure. took awhile, but goddamn was she tight.
     
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    Sounds like an angle problem.
     
  10. sportsjunkie

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    was she hurting at all? even if it's not her first time, her hymen can still be in tact.
    it may also be that the muscles in her vagina were contracting, therefore not allowing your penis to insert itself (making her tight)..this can be due to stress, fear or anxiety. and just from reading your posts, it seems like you all tried for a long time, and it may just be her body telling her that she just needs to relax.

    but yeah, like the others said, try lube, or even try a sex toy (vibrator) at first and see how she handles that.

    good luck
     
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    Thanks for the help guys! I will keep all this in mind for this weekend.
     
  12. Digits

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    haha 5" is really thick.. 5.5" isn't really long, but 5" is deffinetly pretty thick
     
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    is she skinny?or what?
    Tell her to close her eyes and stick it inside fast!!
     
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    :werd:

    hes got a soda can :ugh: :rofl:
     
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    dont use warming liquid, lots of girls say that burns there cooch,
     
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    you sure you were heading for the right entrance?
     
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    haha I thought so too.. Until I measured the circumfrance of mine haha.. 5" too.. I always thought 5" would be wider.. Cause I never thought of myself as thick, just long..

    haha.. Guess we learn something new everyday.. Measure yourself and you'll see haha
     
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    fuck her in the ass and tell her that it's less painful in the right hole...............
     
  21. RedVsBlue

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    everyone that I have talked to personally about it loves it :dunno: to each thier own...

    but IMO its some awesome shit
     
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    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    yea I think people are getting circumfrance mixed up with diameter. 5" isnt near a soda can, and actually closer to average size.
     
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    I'm one of the (apparently few) people who found that it burned. It did not feel good at all & put a stop to all activities for the rest of the night. At least there's a huge variety of lubes to choose from out there, so we're slowly making our way through testing each brand & their types if they make more than one lube. :naughty:

    Edit: For others who may not like warming lubes and haven't yet found a lube they like; try Bliss lube...I thought it was one of the best water based we've tried so far. I hear Eros is great as well, but I always go for variety and never have enough money left over to afford to splurge on the Eros. :(
     

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