I've never posted in here before so hi to everyone. I'm a 20 year old female who is in her 2nd year of college and lives at home when not in school. My problem is I have no control of my life. I have parents that are way over controlling (especially my mom). All my life I've never had any access to my money; I have a savings account in mine and my dad's name, that's it. So all they money I make from my job goes right into there and I get none of it. Any money I get I have to beg for. My parents won't let me open a checking account or have a credit card. They also only give me small amounts of cash for when I go to school. I literally have to make a list of expenses and they'll give me just a little more than the list states (and I can't lie about how much stuff costs because they will go look it up). Since I have no money I obviously can't move out of my house. I do not make anywhere near enough to pay rent or even pay for a car. I have to beg for a ride to my job.( yes I can drive but only my dad's car and he works farther away than my mom) My job is too far away to walk and I live in Minnesota so walking is not always an option. I've had problems with my mom since I was about 10. We basically always fight about everything. I don't want to go home over breaks from school just because I know she'll be there. A recent problem I have with her is I asked for a new cell phone for my birthday a few days ago. The phone I wanted costs $50. I was called ungrateful and greedy. They still have yet to give me anything but a card for my birthday. Even my boyfriend's mom gave me a stuffed animal. Being in college is putting me into major debt. I think I accumulate at least $2000 in loans a semester. My parents make just a little too much money for me to get any help besides loans and I've tried and been denied many scholarships. All the money I make right now will to towards next semester's bill. My point I guess is I just don't know what I can do to get out of this? I can't seem to grow up because my parent's are holding me back. To give you a clue how bad it is, I don't even know how to make a bank deposit. Help ot asylum crew!