i believe in the girl never being interested in you. before and during my first LTR i made friends w. lots of girls. either i became friends w. them and then my fiancee became friends w. them, she was friends w. them and then i became friends w. them, or i was already friends w. them before my LTR. there was zero flirting. we'd hang out w. eachother frequently. within a year after my break up i slept with 5 of them. including the girl that was going to be the bride's maid had we gotten married..... this girl i was friends w. for probably a year before i even met my would be fiancee and her and i never flirted. friendzones are an excuse made by girls who just do not find you attractive enough to date. they dont want to hurt your feelings. it then became such a popular and accepted thing to say that people just believe in it. if a girl finds you attractive it wont matter how long you took to make a move or if you even made one at all. she will hook up w. you once you get the nuts to make a real move.