SRS I did the dumbest thing I have ever done tonight

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  1. Crackaboy

    Crackaboy New Member

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    For some reason, I was flirting with my gf's friend, whom has helped an exfriend steal her boyfriend before. It happened at my gf's basketball game in plain view of god and everybody. Her mom and little sister saw it :hs: My gf put on a good face but went home and cried about it. I feel like the biggest ass ever because I know the friend could NEVER compare to my gf.

    I wrote my gf an email to apologise and explain myself....


    "Babe, I dont know what I was thinking tonight. I should have know she was flirting, hell I may have. I was being a fucking idiot is what I was doing. I would never do anything to hurt you. You're the best thing that ever happened to me. You are the only girl that has ever looked past my chubbyness and actually gave me a chance. You look past my stupidity and inconsiderateness and you love me for who I am. You love me when Im being a jackass. You love me when Im being stupid. You even love my stupid little jokes. You mean the world to me.

    A day without at least talking to you is a day that I dont completely enjoy. Seeing a smile on your face is the best feeling in the world. When I hurt you, its like Im hurting myself. This may sound stupid and all, but I truly feel sorry for hurting you. You make my life what it is. Before you, I was lonely and always sad. I didnt show it to most people, but i was miserable. our first date was like a mental high that I've been on ever since. I cant explain how much I enjoy our time together. Being with you is where i want to be the rest of my life. Sam is cool and all (as a friend), but there is no way in bloody hell she even comes within 500 miles of comparing to you.

    I know you're gonna tell me this message is gay but its what I feel, and I felt like you had to know.

    I love you, sweetie. You are my life. Dont ever forget that.

    I have alot more that I wish I could say, but those feelings cant even be written down. smile

    Loves you

    Your baby"

    Do you guys think I did the right thing by sending her that message?

    god I feel like such an idiot :wtc:
     
  2. LancerV

    LancerV Something Happened OT Supporter

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    Text Messages are gay, pick up the phone and call the person if you really mean it!
     
  3. dmac411

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    that was quite a not smart move you pulled. but at least you recognized what you did. you best do something in person...not over e-mail.
     
  4. Crackaboy

    Crackaboy New Member

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    I've already talked to her.... she seems okay now but I thought I could better illustrate my feelings through the written word :hs:

    She will see that tomorrow
     
  5. PuppyCat

    PuppyCat O.T. Mom

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    ~sigh~ I think your message was sweet. Lot of eating crow in it, but then again, you did something dumb that shouldn't of happened.
    If you are crazy about this girl, as you seem to be, and want to be with her for a very long time, I suggest you think before you do another dumb thing.
    Also, I think flowers are in order. Not roses, but a pretty bunch of posies. At least you recognized that you did something really dumb and have tried to make amends before disaster struck.
    Good Luck.
     
  6. teo

    teo . => ? => !

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    Eh?
    You've apologized, now keep your word and prove through your actions that you are committed to your GF. Don't pay lip service to change and not follow through with it. It's what you actually do that counts.
     
  7. Crackaboy

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    Flowers.... I like it :cool:
     
  8. LancerV

    LancerV Something Happened OT Supporter

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    :werd: Actions speak louder than words
     
  9. Darketernal

    Darketernal Watch: Aria The Origination =)

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    The only thing that you learn from mistakes , is that you shouldn't make them, is my opinion.

    This was a very damaging experience to both your gf and you. DONT screwup again in the future. You can thank god on your knees if she takes you back -_-.
     
  10. RedDawg

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    maybe apologize to the mother/sister also if they actually witnessed it, it would show to your g/f that you truly care about her and her family.
     
  11. DiggityDogg

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    That letter was totally pathetic. I know you were wrong, but it's one thing to admit it, and another to grovel and plead for forgiveness like a priest who broke one of the Ten Commandments.
     

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