I cum too fast :(

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  1. Style

    Style Boioioioioioioioing

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    Shit is embarassing.

    Well I've been dating this girl for a few around 2 months now, things are great, but the sex is :hsugh:

    Basically, when I ride her, it takes me around 45 seconds to cum like a horse. wtf?

    This is pissing me off. She says that she likes it and not bothered at all, but I get EXTREMELY annoyed and embarrassed.

    What can I do? Any tips?

    halp!
     
  2. ForevererZero89

    ForevererZero89 New Member

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    wear a condom, thickest you can find. or two. it decreases sensitivity.
     
  3. just_another_on

    just_another_on New Member

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    Although that is true, it could be mental.

    You really need to work on something to keep your mind busy. Dont get me wrong the act of sex sends more sensation and thoughts through your brain than anything else in this world but you have to put those thoughts in the back of your head (no pun intended) and not think about it. It really just takes time, learn your 'stroke' haha, as they say and work with it. Learn to stop, keep the girl entertained, tease her, etc, just do what you have to.

    Oh and if you are really that worried, jerk off before sex, it'll also prolong it. Well, usually.
     
  4. Ford4Life

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    Go slower, don't pound her quickly. Jerk off before hand to.
     
  5. Dahlia

    Dahlia Active Member

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    Don't wear two condoms. This is such bad advice, and you will have a kid on your hands.
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :werd:

    Don't fuck her in that positon until you are ready to cum. My fiance knows if he does doggy he can't last as long as he does in every other position, so he saves it for last when we're both ready.

    You can either try that or just :
    1. Go slower
    2. Stop when you feel you are about to cum and change positions
     
  7. mtnbike4522

    mtnbike4522 CelicaTech.com

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    rub one out, wear a condom, have some drinks, vicodin?
     
  8. aaholland

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    time came with practice for me. First few times were under a min. Especially with the new excitement. But as many have said find your stroke and work with it. Now i can hold out for an hour at least. Usually we are to tired to go on before i decide to finish.
     
  9. THoC

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    right before you are about to cum pull out and "hold it in". tease her. compose yourself. go back in. do this a few times and after the 3rd or 4th you will last long enough.
     
  10. Poopshoot

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    you are just going to have to fuck her more man. i dont like to jerk it before because then my dick doesnt get as hard when the actual fucking starts.
     
  11. aaholland

    aaholland New Member

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    This does not work for me. I just get harder and finish quicker.
     
  12. THoC

    THoC New Member

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    hmmm..... works for me really well.

    of course different things work for different people.
     
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    SquallRm New Member

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    that would definitely do it.
     
  14. Mac Man

    Mac Man New Member

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    I used to suffer from that. After doing Pelvic muscle exercises for about a month, I actually have to make myself cum.
     
  15. ForevererZero89

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    tramadol also does the same thing, but is not have the risk of addiction.
     
  16. Dahlia

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    I think you need to practice and do it yourself rather then rely on a chemical substance to do it for you.
     
  17. Zee

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    this sans condoms...
     
  18. Dargone

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    I have phenomenal control and it just takes practice. The current girl that I am dating is 35 and wants it all the time (good times). We had great sex last night for around 2 hours. Now of course this was not just straight intercourse. Lots of foreplay, several different positions, etc. Keep at it and stop when you feel you are about to cum (usually you only need to stop for a few seconds). Also, the condom advice is good too.
     
  19. Falconer

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    have her go down on you first. A chick won't complain if you only take a minute or two to cum during head. It will keep her jaw from getting tired and she'll feel like a champ.

    Then when you have sex later, you'll last longer.

    This is better than masturbating beforehand because head > masturbation.
     
  20. Falconer

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    You're engaged?!
     
  21. MR. Marti

    MR. Marti New Member

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    calm down, rub one out before you meet up with her, use something like a Durex Performax condom or something designed for stuff like this.
     
  22. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rofl: yeah...
     
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    :rofl::rofl::rofl: Where have you been man
     
  24. Falconer

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    when did that happen? link me to the thread.
     
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    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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