I can't orgasm during sex and I'm a guy :hs:

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  1. manchild

    manchild OT Supporter

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    I'm 17, and had sex the first time a month ago. It was really short (like 30 seconds short), and I didn't have a condom so we stopped immediately. Anyways the same situation happened a week later, we had sex, I didn't have a condom, but this time we actually had sex for a lot longer, although I didn't orgasm.

    Anyways, last night was the first time we had sex with a condom. I don't know how long it was but, we were making love a while and she said "What do you want me to do" and then she took off the condom and gave me head, and I came.

    I can orgasm when she's giving me head (just giving me head or after sex, like above), but when we're just having sex it's weird, like I can't come, and I never really feel like I'm coming close. It feels good, but I never feel close to coming.

    Not sure if it matters, but when I don't go all the way in (like when my head is closer to the opening) it feels a lot better (which makes sense). Is this just something I need to get used to or what?
     
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    You have no problems dude. If you beat off too much it might play a factor, but at your age if you are playing safe, and everything is working...maybe not quite as fast as you like, then have fun.
     
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    deathgrip syndrome. stop beating off so much.
     
  4. manchild

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    Yeah well I've stopped since we've been together, but before that I would beat off once a day :hs:. Thanks for the advice :big grin:
     
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    yup, but not like he actually will.
     
  6. manchild

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    If it'll help then I don't see why I wouldn't. I'd rather have it mean something when I'm with her than sit at home and whack it just because I'm bored :dunno:
     
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    then you're a better guy than most.
     
  8. manchild

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    Yeah, well I've realized that the girls that are worth it aren't into the whole badass/major asshole type guy.
     
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    You might be trying too hard. Just relax and take it slow. Let it build up and vary the rhythm and depth of your strokes.
     
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    Wow, I had the same problem the first time I got laid(not too long ago- summer 2007). She came like twice but I didn't at all... she kinda felt bad and so did I. Because it felt great, but I just didn't come. I'm almost positive it was because I was jacking off way too much.
     
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    Stop watching so much porn and relax ...
     

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