Discussion in 'On Topic' started by Hawkeye, Jun 25, 2005.
how does one (me) keep a secret without so much stress on one's (my) mind?
tell a stranger...
thats just what i was planning to do.
my friend (girl) isnt over this one guy yet, but the guy has gotten a new girlfriend, and has had sex with her, after telling my same friend that he didnt use girls for sex anymore. the thing is she doesnt know, and a whole group of people have told me not to tell anybody, not even people not involved. i wasnt going to tell anybody, but when they made a big deal of it, the secret became stressful.
Just dont say anything to anybody. Until he tries to sleep with her again, then spill the beans. I am guessing you are in high school, people may be pissed off for a few days or weeks, but the reality is they will get over it.
man im glad im out of highschool
Guys sleep with girls. Girls sleep with guys. Guys sleep with other girls. Girls sleep with other guys.
This is basically how the world works. The "secret" isn't really that big of a deal.
Oh wait, if it gets out, then people will know this guy slept with another girl and sorta went back on his "word".
Gee, this is a unique development... that's never happened before...
Ok, just messing with ya.
Don't stress out over it. Tell someone. Or don't tell someone.
It won't really matter either way. 10 years from now, no one will care. Hell, 10 days from now no one will really care.
So many people have gotten pissed at me for spreading rumors (true ones)
stilll in highschool i assume?
i used to care about who was doing what and that shit... now it pisses me off when ppl try to gossip with me... i dont give a flying fuck unless it effects me or someone i care about
song playing as i read this: Can you keep a secret?
Exactly. Gossip is fuckin' lame, and those who gossip often get smacked the fuck up in the end. Avoid gossip and salvage your character. When all the fads have gone, and everyone of your friends has grown up -- all you'll have left is that....character.
Gossip is even illigal in the bible , well look.
If you have trouble with something, ask yourself is it Love to do this to another person, if your gut feeling says no, just discuss it with your parents so you can lift your steam and then shut your mouth so no one will get hurt due to your actions.
That's my issue and it's something I am working on.
There's only so much of your life that you can control. Whether or not someone talks about you, your actions are the reason that they do. And most of the time the person involved is the first one to spread the rumor. It's easy to put the blame on someone else--everyone does. In fact everyone who re-spreads a rumor blames the original person for doing it when it was them also. As for the ones involved, look deeper and you'll find that they are actually the real cause of it.